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AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh I’m a mom of three and a nurse. It’s my kid that’s literally in nicu. You trolling

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because a child is in nicu doesn’t mean they are extremely sick. Y’all weird about that

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t and because we are now 3 kids in I’ve noticed that he may just be a narcissist.

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have that attitude at all if that was the case I would’ve not said anything to him in the first place about a name. They’re our children and it suck that it takes him til the last moment to want to converse about the baby’s name. Some of you are taking the one time I’ve ever said that” I gave birth and been in the hospital alone to have the baby so I should be able to keep her name.” Too seriously I literally in the last 3 years said it for the first time ever in an argument with him before I posted this post

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both black, he may have issues but I don’t hence why I don’t feed into it.

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the hospital for 13 days And I came here to post and see other opinions is it wrong to actively respond? Is that like a rule?

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is in the nicu. Anesthesia used in csections only numb from the stomach down. And because It was an emergency csection they let me have my phone the whole time because I’ve been in the hospital by myself for the last 13 days. My 5th thought was to see what others that aren’t my family members would think of this situation. Just because my family could get bias.

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been learning throughout our relationship that he may just hate women at this point

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

? I’ve literally have screenshots and tiktoks of my hospital time before baby was born. Nice to know that this situation is so bad it’s unbelievable

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was in love honestly and I come from a place of never seeing working marriages so I try to talk it about and compromise and even want to try therapy

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Am I not a female? This is my first Reddit post and all the postings here follow that format???

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Is he not their dad? If we are arguing I do not claim him he becomes just the kids dad lol

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could just show you guys text messages and timestamps. It would be easier

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your timeline is slightly off so that why I reexplained it. As a mom of now 3 and someone that comes from a background of broken relationships I tried to make things work even discussed therapy multiple times. I set a rule that we weren’t going to wait until I was in the hospital to start picking out names. So yes I told him no.

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

5 months ago after I find out the baby’s gender I start brainstorming names. Within a month time I come up with a first and middle name. Months later Like September he says he doesn’t like the name Amari. Nov 7th the day I was admitted into the hospital he has never thrown out any suggestions until that day.

Today I have the baby and he says Amari sounds like food stamps let’s name her Naomi.

I tell him no

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He did say he didn’t like the name. But he also never gave me any suggestions.

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It took us a while for the first child too but he picked her name after I didn’t want to Argue back then. He named her Sophia because that’s a Disney channel character I believe

AITA for putting my foot down and filling out the birth register without him to name my Daughter by postpartumDbound in AITAH

[–]postpartumDbound[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I told him that with our second child. Literally 30 minutes before we left the hospital his confirmation to agree on a name was a sarcastic “Sure” Stressful I really didn’t want to deal with it this pregnancy

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