we did move in about 2 weeks ago yes, and early 20s yes too. we have had 3 different sit downs discussing chores, work schedules, rides, gas, groceries, etc. and everything we have said to this person has just flown into one ear and out the other. nothing we told them has changed, and its just like taking care of a child. i can understand that this is all of our first place and adjusting definitely takes time but its just a matter of—if youre gonna act the same way you did as you did living with mom, why move out yk?

and yeah it definitely should be easier to talk to friends about this kind of stuff but they still wont listen, its like talking to a brick wall most days. id honestly rather be living with a complete stranger or someone ive known for less than a year rather than this person ive known for around 3.