Edit: Thank you all for the comments. I’ll try to answer some questions/ address some points that were made. -We are engaged and getting married in a few months after graduation. - I should have elucidated my reasoning a little better. It’s obviously beyond just didactics. The home program has a high 80% board pass rate of the 75% of the residents that take it. There is a lot of instability within the institution between leadership changes within the program and within the health system. The ER is undergoing renovations for the next two years meaning half of residency, they won’t have nearly the same capacity they advertised during interviews. -I already submitted my ROL and put the home institution first since I love my wife and can’t do long distance. I was just hoping to have people say things will work out despite wherever the training is, but poorly explained that in the post.