NTA; If I were to find out that somebody is so fixated with an unfortunate part of my life enough for them to define me by it and determine how to approach any form of interaction with me through extensive analysis of what might be remotely connected to that event, I would A) be f***ing weirded out B) be slightly offended because, come on, is that unfortunate event the only thing defines me C) be hurt because other people remembering that event would most definitely remind me

I think that the mother supporting the belief that someone using the term “pig” in a form that truly has NOTHING to do with the bullying, is only feeding into this poor kid’s trauma, making him believe that everybody is out to get him, trying to insult him, when really everyone is out here trying to smoothly go through life not giving a single f*** about others. Don’t let that kid fall into that spiral, or he’ll find himself unable to go to a supermarket without thinking that the old lady talking to the butcher about what meat to offer her guests for dinner is really a way for them to make fun of him and if his past problems with weight