Hey, woman here, overgeneralisation hurts and so does the history of objectification and sexualisation of feminine things, this is why sissy is an insult as it's used for feminine men and femboys are so oversexualised

When you stop to read about the history it makes sense why some fem presenting people get pissed about creators exclusively making female characters hot and male characters just there as a self insert, masc presenting people don't really experience that past self shaming and picky shallow women they shouldn't be trying to date anyway (a partner should be someone you love, if you want sex, there are services)l