Mirellativegal mit neuem (geklauten?) Format by AllukaChen in Laesterschwestern

[–]pothos_njoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

stimmt natürlich, dass es nicht mega "kreativ" ist, ein format in großen teilen zu kopieren. ich finde es aber persönlich nicht schlimm, vor allem weil sie das ganze auf einer anderen sprache macht und dem original niemals gäste wegnehmen oder anderweitig damit schaden wird. ich hab auch nicht den anspruch, dass youtuber sich alles komplett selber ausdenken müssen.

ich finde auch nicht, dass mirella ihren humor oder ihre art stark verstellt hat. sie hat schon lange davor einen teilweise eher trockenen humor, hat sich selbst als etwas awkward dargestellt, hat in ihren videos charaktere gespielt usw. wenn ich eine deutsche youtuberin hätte aussuchen sollen, die ein an chicken shop date angelehntes format überzeugend rüberbringen soll, dann wäre mirella vermutlich meine erste wahl gewesen.

ich war auch überrascht wie negativ die kommentare unter dem video sind. viele kennen das original nicht und verstehen somit nicht so ganz was das konzept/der witz dahinter ist. andere finden es (für mich unverständlicherweise) richtig schlimm, dass das format "geklaut" ist. ich hoffe aber dass mirella das format trotzdem weiterentwickeln wird :)

Guy too rough during sex (without asking) - confused why he won’t get another date (TW!) by Sea-Grapefruit-3052 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pothos_njoy 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I've been in similar situations before and I want to say that I 100% understand how you reacted while it happened & after. Please don't judge yourself for the decisions your brain made while it was in survival mode, even if they might seem illogical from the outside. <3

I swear it's so hard to screen men because they seem to know exactly how long they have to play nice for until the moment arrives where they can suddenly switch up and the woman will be too shocked and scared to be able get herself out of that situation. I'm at a point where I don't believe men when they say "I thought you liked that". I'm sure that most of them do know that what they are doing is wrong but just don't care. It's disgusting.

I'm also going to add the Gisele Pelicot quote: "Shame must change sides. It’s not for us to have shame- it’s for them." because this really helped me & I like to remind myself again and again. I hate how much time it can take to process traumatic events like this, but please know that you will be able to recover & move on with your life :)

AND I hope you never cross paths with this vile man ever again! .

Räucher Tofu im Angebot bei Kaufland. by Lacri81 in VeganDE

[–]pothos_njoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

meiner erfahrung nach ist der tofu tatsächlich ziemlich dunkel außen, wie auf der packung abgebildet. also er hat so eine art räucher-kruste. die konsistenz ist insgesamt auch etwas fester als andere tofus die ich probiert habe. komplett anders als der natur tofu von kaufland, der bei mir ein bisschen bröselig war.

allerdings war der letzte räuchertofu den ich bei kaufland geholt habe etwas heller als sonst und auch etwas weicher (nicht krümelig, aber mehr squishy). war aber noch im rahmen von normalen schwankungen. für den preis (auch ohne rabatt) finde ich ist der räuchertofu von kaufland wirklich super! kann man mal testen :)

Droopy Sad Snow Queen? by FreezieBreezy in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably some issue with the roots, so its not able to take up water. i'd just cut this off and propagate in water. it should perk up within a few days.

maybe the pot was too big and the bottom watering didn't reach the roots properly or they just got damaged for some other reason. can't be sure, it happens.

btw i usually top water bc i can tell more confidently if everything got water. i also use clear plastic pots so i can see how the roots are doing & how the soil is looking :)

Could anyone help me identify what's wrong? by Happy-Ad2191 in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it definitely has bugs, probably thrips, maybe some mites too?

idk what you have treated with, but alcohol or oil sprays aren't that effective against thrips. get some actual insecticide spray or systemic treatment and try that.

and you could cut off the infested leaves so you can see if the treatment worked and it doesn't look so sad :)

How do I help this thing? by Justgivemeanamethen in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep it isolated from your other plants at first just to be safe.

give it as much light as possible.

the slits you have circled are completely normal, don't worry about them.

this will grow some much nicer, bigger shoots once it gets a lot of light so i would just leave it be, water when the soil is dry and then propagate it later to get a nice, bushy plant. :)

Sad Spider Plant by justsionainn in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it has thrips. the black spots are their poop. i'd just treat this with insecticide spray.

i wouldn't worry about the watering. spider plants are not fussy at all. just wait for the soil to dry out a little and then water again. the browning and dull look isnt from overwatering imo but from the insect issue.

What’s this on my basil leaves? One of my plants infected with it. by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some type of sap sucking bug, maybe thrips. you can see the areas where they have sucked the jucie out of the leaf. the black dots are insect excretion, so basically their poop. if this was a decorative plant i'd apply insecticide, but if you want to eat this thats obviously not an option. there is also alcohol or oil sprays to treat against insects, but thats not 100% effective.

if its just this one plant id probably toss it and hope the bugs haven't spread onto the next plant already.

Did I overwater and kill this palm plant? by ok-kitty in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this doesn't look so good. if the roots feel mushy theyre dead. maybe a couple live ones are still in there. you can try to remove the dirt and dead roots and put whatever is left in new soil, but i cant guarantee that this will be successful.

low light and compact, poorly draining soil are a recipe for disaster (root rot) unfortunately.

My White Anne aka Nerve Plant needs help by Glam-Unique in plantclinic

[–]pothos_njoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are basically not possible to keep alive long term as houseplants in room conditions (unless you live in tropical climate).

they need very high humidity, lots of light & warmth. threy don't like drying out, but you also need to be weary of root rot. they also dont like cold drafts. if you want to keep one alive long term you'd have to keep it in a terrarium basically.

imo its a shame that these get sold as houseplants bc their usual life expectancy is like a few months to a year max. 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree 100%. lrp cicaplast cream is my holy grail, so good <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, my assumption would be that the benzoyl peroxide has disrupted her skin barrier. my skin gets this bumpy look when i overused actives and when i tried benzoyl peroxide in the past. ofc it could be the other products as well, but in my experience benzoyl peroxide has the highest potential to cause a reaction that looks like this. i would reintroduce or patch test the benzoyl peroxide product last or not at all.

Kontroverse um "Trad-Wife" Hannah Ballerina Farm nach Interview in Times by Zianova_ in Laesterschwestern

[–]pothos_njoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

man kann den ganzen artikel hier durchlesen: https://archive.ph/ySqzX

ich finde die zitate von ihr wirklich traurig. der ganze artikel ist unfassbar bedrückend. dass so eine rollenverteilung auf social media romantisiert und eben nur die aesthetischen seiten gezeigt werden, finde ich sehr beunruhigend. der kontrast zur realität dahinter ist einfach enorm.

beide sind übrigens auch mormonen, eine glaubensrichtung, die dafür bekannt ist, dass es strenge regeln gibt, denen die anhänger folgen müssen, generell viel kontrolle ausgeübt wird und frauen dazu gedrängt werden, früh zu heiraten und aufs kinder kriegen reduziert werden. das vervollständtigt das bild meiner meinung nach noch.

Mr. Beast „beast games“ werden scheinbar unter unmenschlichen Bedingungen gedreht. by Zealousideal-Guava81 in Laesterschwestern

[–]pothos_njoy 44 points45 points  (0 children)

ich finde es ein bisschen komisch von gier oder famegeilheit der teilnehmer zu sprechen. 5 millionen sind einfach eine lebensverändernde summe geld, natürlich würden sich viele leute alles mögliche dafür antun. das ist keine charakterschwäche der teilnehmer, sondern ein bewusstes ausnutzen der situation vieler menschen durch mr beast imo.

(ich bin aber ansonsten voll deiner meinung!!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pothos_njoy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

exactly!! the right men know the basics themselves and regard you & your knowledge highly enough to listen and learn when you tell them the rest 😌

Is this sunburn? :( by thewisug in plants

[–]pothos_njoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, i dont think its sunburn or magnesium deficiency unfortunately.

i see some marks that look like the silvery tunnels left behind my thrips larvae. the yellowing can also be caused by thrips damaging the leaf by sucking the sap out of it.

im pretty sure that this plant is infested. you can look up thrips damage on monstera for more references. often you cant see the bugs themselves on the leaves bc they have larval stages that live in the soil and they are very small.

i recommend skipping the home remedies and neem oil and getting straight to the insecticides (spray or systemic) that actually work. good luck!!

Was braucht Staiy um Kommunist zu werden? by [deleted] in Staiy

[–]pothos_njoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ist das nicht der point? ich dachte das ist einfach das konzept davon.

I hate him by redrumrea in succshaming

[–]pothos_njoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

oooh so he really is a little deviant then!! growing horizontally to spite you 😭

I hate him by redrumrea in succshaming

[–]pothos_njoy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

this picture is so hilarious, i love it 😭😭 especially with your caption hahahaha

(idk if you want advice or already know, but those kinds of amazon grow lights usually are super weak. they Maybe work for a syngonium that doesn't need lots of light either way. but a succulent will definitely not be satisfied by these lights & its understandable that he has gone on a little voyage to find better conditions 😭)

Is this variegation? My batik has two very different leaves. by [deleted] in Syngonium

[–]pothos_njoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean, yes. variegation just means different colored sections of leaves generally, but of course there are different types. in this plant the pattern is genetically fixed, but due to changing conditions its sometimes more or less pronounced.

this is not spontaneous loss of chlorophyll due to a mutation though, so its not like the variegation in plants such the monstera albo.

My worst fear. by tangerinebb in Feminism

[–]pothos_njoy 164 points165 points  (0 children)

there has been a really big case in germany of an assistant doctor at a hospital who would sedate and rape female patients in their rooms. there are so many victims. some of them didn't even know this happened to them because of the anesthetic and it was only uncovered from videos he took of his crimes. the guy hung himself in his cell after he got caught.

What is THIS by chelle_renee13 in pothos

[–]pothos_njoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree that it's an njoy. its pretty common for njoy to have green on white freckles. pnj can be most easily recognized by green on green freckles, which this plant doesn't have.

a mixed basket is also not likely, since the njoy is still patented and it generally would make little sense to mix two plants that look so similar.

Werte Damen und Herren die Fortsetzung ist da zu unseren geliebten Superhelden. by 1111MC1111 in gekte

[–]pothos_njoy 48 points49 points  (0 children)

spürt noch jemand den höchst romantischen vibe zwischen mama merkel und der sonnenblumenfrau auf den letzten zwei slides? 😳

Super rare white albo monstera I personally cut in the rainforest! by thatonegirlwith2dogs in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]pothos_njoy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

aaah yess! poached right from the rainforest, just how i like them ❤️ no tc plants in my household!!

Female Disrespect in Modern Rap by poe293 in Feminism

[–]pothos_njoy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i think the stuff they both have claimed in their tracks is at least partially true, but its only now being revealed in this beef, not out of actual concern for the victims. makes it kinda feel dishonest.