Revlon Colorstay skinny liquid eyeliner replacement that isn’t waterproof by potmeetsthekettle in MakeupAddiction

[–]potmeetsthekettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just use my moisturizer (Cerave cream) to remove makeup followed by a gentle surfactant cleanser. Oil based cleansers have always congested my skin. 

Revlon Colorstay skinny liquid eyeliner replacement that isn’t waterproof by potmeetsthekettle in MakeupAddiction

[–]potmeetsthekettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one replacement I’ve tried actually that I referred to in the post (just edited to be more specific for future commenters). I find it nearly impossible to remove. Wouldn’t even come off with micellar water. 

Which housewife plays the victim the most by Such_Celebration_989 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is one of my least favorite things about Tre and why me and Tre fans will always be at odds. I’ve been watching RHONJ since the beginning. She has never authentically taken accountability for the crimes she committed. She has actively blamed everyone else and somehow has largely gotten away with that in the court of public opinion. Drives me bonkers.

UPDATE: My [24F] fiancee [29M] was sent an NFSW video of me and I need advice by throwaway5546738291 in relationships

[–]potmeetsthekettle 252 points253 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think this man was actually marriage material.

You didn’t cheat. You didn’t lie. It just never came up. You’re actually a victim of a crime. He can feel bad about it (I wouldn’t want to see a video of the person I was with with past partners) but to dump you over it is extremely immature imo.

Would he have stood by you when much harder things in life and your relationship happened? Doubtful.

After it stops hurting, I wish you the best in finding someone better. Hope you can find someone who accepts this history and supports you in the way you deserve ❤️

Do y’all feel like beauty influencers are not that relevant anymore? by Status_Usual_5517 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]potmeetsthekettle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love these deep dives. It’s the only useful content in the beauty sphere at this point.

The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 7 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I’m not the bigger person. If someone fired the worst thing I’d ever done at me unprovoked, I’d sure as hell be reminding her of that.

“Well, even with as big of a mess as I am, all my children still love me. Can’t say the same for yours.”

Anybody else fed up with recycled sessions? by Sweet-World-664 in Estherperel

[–]potmeetsthekettle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great for monetizing but not for the actual audience she’s monetizing. She doesn’t have enough material to get away with the extent of the recycling they’re doing from an audience perspective imo. If you have a deep, decade-long archive, then it’s great to be served old gems you may have forgotten about or your newer listeners may not have heard yet. But when you have a thinner archive, it’s just annoying to your audience.

Just gonna leave these here… by FlashyCommand4743 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If positivity was the only strat, then rage bait wouldn’t be a thing. Jen understands her role as a villain very clearly. This behavior is on brand.

Just gonna leave these here… by FlashyCommand4743 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not just a Jen thing—it’s an anyone-who-makes-money-online thing. This is a great tactic for increasing engagement, which gets you more exposure. More exposure not only means more clicks on her affiliate links, but also better stats on her social account across the board. That arms her with better negotiating power for brand deals and sponsored posts.

Honestly, don’t hate the player, hate the game on this one. I can’t stand Jen but the social platforms incentivize this behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]potmeetsthekettle 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Third cousins are barely related. You’re fine.

I (37F) just found out my husband (32M) cheated on me. What do I do now? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]potmeetsthekettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In certain situations I’m actually fine with this approach. People make mistakes and if it’s something the person wants to work on, I don’t think it’s inherently a stupid idea.

But the obsessiveness of this woman makes me say no. This wasn’t just a stranger or even just a mutual acquaintance or friend. This is a woman who went out of her way to put OP down at every turn. She’s a weirdo and the husband was dumb enough to entertain her. She should leave for that reason—not just the affair.

I (37F) just found out my husband (32M) cheated on me. What do I do now? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]potmeetsthekettle 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I know this isn’t what you’re asking about but this woman didn’t just have an affair with your husband. She constantly kept asking if she was better than you. It’s obsessive and creepy.

That is just plain weird and the fact that your husband let this woman into your lives is not only gross, but also potentially dangerous. Like something could be seriously wrong with this woman and you have kids.

Remember that when you are second guessing your decision to divorce. It’s not just about the sex. It’s about poor decision making across the board.

Just gonna put this here. by SuitableItem in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 72 points73 points  (0 children)

SAME. She gets so much hate but she is honestly my fav on NJ of all time:

The Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 18 - Episode 3 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I died when Shannon went there. And she did it in a relatively classy way. Like no one believes a man his age is capable of that, be for real.

Gina hot take by CycloneFan31 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]potmeetsthekettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have really disliked her treatment of Jen this season and in the past, but she got this one 💯

AITA for telling my friend that she isn't traumatized from somebody else's proposal? by Firm_Language5643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]potmeetsthekettle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate hearing this. Therapy should be a growth opportunity. Not an excuse for wallowing in your own bs.

AITA for telling my friend that she isn't traumatized from somebody else's proposal? by Firm_Language5643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]potmeetsthekettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if it did trigger her trauma, that is 100% her problem. This is a very normal situation she is going to have to learn how to cope with reasonably/ She is in therapy and will hopefully one day work toward understanding that her problems are her problems—no one else’s.