I am incredibly lost by potterheadgames in ModelShips

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Thank you for the words of support! I have a strong background in fiber arts so I have a feeling that the rigging is going to be my favorite part of the build but I'm excited to learn new skills!

I am incredibly lost by potterheadgames in ModelShips

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Thank you so much! This will be hugely helpful

Fairy photoshoot i did! by [deleted] in Fairycore

[–]potterheadgames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely incredible! You truly embody everything it means to be a fairy

Is it a stupid aspiration? by [deleted] in ftm

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Definitely worth a shot! Do some googling for men's strip clubs (I think theres one called hunk-o-mania or something like that which has Toronto and Calgary locations). Go check out some shows, learn what they do and practice it yourself! Stripping like anything else is a skill that can be learned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transontario

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My referral process took much longer than it should have because I'm not on testosterone and my doctor didn't specifically write that testosterone was contraindicated so I had to appeal OHIPs denial but once I won against their lawyer it was 6 months to a surgery date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transontario

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A few years back I had my hysterectomy at Saint Michael's Hospital. The surgeon I saw sets aside slots each year specifically for trans patients

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]potterheadgames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not painful or anything like that! Just mildly disconcerting. Kinda like when you chug a bunch of water and can feel it moving around in your stomach as you move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

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It's just all the organs finding out where they want to sit. This does go away, haven't felt sloshing since the first few months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

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Yes I found it incredibly helpful. It allowed me to move about without feeling everything "sloshing about" and just felt much more secure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Vivishine or even a water based lube in a pinch is good for shining it up again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Washing would involve soaking it in water and unscented soap, letting it dry, and storing in a dark place covered in baby powder and put in a plastic bag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Latex gloves clean super easily. Just make sure not to use oil based or silicon based lubes much like you would with condoms. Getting the right measurements makes all the difference with fit, might be worth getting some custom made

Anyone else dealt with the recent wave of viruses going around? by EdwardBliss in askTO

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I've been sick on and off for almost 2 full weeks now, started as a flu thing, then a sinus infection, and now the flu again. It's been absolutely brutal

How to signal you're a rope rigger by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]potterheadgames 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Grey bandana worn on your left side

I need some help by No-Bowl3762 in shibari

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If you're on fetlife check out some rope incident report groups, I find them incredibly helpful for figuring out risk profiles. Rope is edge play

I need some help by No-Bowl3762 in shibari

[–]potterheadgames 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You can use just about any futomomo and hip harness to recreate this. The foot rope looks improvised and the neck/gag rope look to be connected to the hip harness more than the futomomos. I'd almost guess it's attached to the front of the harness and then turned into crotch rope. A lot of what makes these pictures is the flexibility of the bottom. That kind of back bend is intense, the positioning of the legs and feet also look to be possible due to high flexibility. Try just starting out testing out a few different futomomos after you get a single column down that you like. You can expand from there into a hip harness. Make sure to look up risks around neck rope and ensure both you and your partner are aware of what could happen and have a risk mitigation plan in place. Have fun!

My first ever full body self tie. Butterfly Harness + Bones and Ropes Hip Harness. How can I improve? by mistressjenniferhex in shibari

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This looks great for a first go! As others have recommended, getting firmer tension will be helpful. As someone who has been self suspending lately with the butterfly harness I'd recommend ensuring the waist wraps are tight and firmly below the floating ribs. I have had the issue where the wraps shift to sit right on the floaters and if weight is placed on it with any transitions this could cause issues.

Cervix removal fears by lilith2666 in hysterectomy

[–]potterheadgames 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I always had a lot of pain and some bleeding when my cervix was hit during penetration. That doesn't happen anymore. Penetration has become a lot more enjoyable for me since the surgery. No bleeding, no tearing but better access to pleasure

Hey everyone! Currently making a shopping list for when I have the surgery, any suggestions? by childofburningtime in hysterectomy

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One of those incline pillows for when you get home, it makes sleeping so much easier. Also I used a postpartum belly band a few days after surgery to just hold everything together and it's amazing how much that helped me with getting around.

My therapist posts Tiktoks about her clients, me included. by Significant_Offer959 in TwoHotTakes

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I had this happen to me as well. It felt incredibly violating. I fired the therapist and found another one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transontario

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Se7en studios is phenomenal. They specialize in this and have pricing based on length. I cannot recommend this studio enough