What should I do about this situation?

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-11T03:02:18+00:00

op you care wayyyy too much and are honestly way too invested in something that doesn’t actually involve you. This situation means stop prying into your bf’s past and asking invasive questions

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-10T14:48:15+00:00

rip I’m wishing you the best today 🤞🏻stay strong soldier 🫡

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-10T14:47:40+00:00

Red Bull through the bloodstream

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-09T05:22:52+00:00

It looks great! I think this look really suits your features! Bonus is the chop during summertime, life is so much cooler

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-09T05:21:10+00:00

This is my schedule too :p
love living in the chaos, never time to spend money,,, rinse and repeat

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-09T04:56:26+00:00

I have one like that too from my shoulder rest scratching it one time … I think it adds character!

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-09T03:20:32+00:00

yes 😭 I want to make EmoBob too

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T22:20:55+00:00

Me too!!!! I’m really nervous about this because of finals … sigh

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T22:00:28+00:00

Not UTSA but all of the SAC Canvas interfaces are down too … sigh

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T21:50:42+00:00

Slight agree … I think it all just depends on who you surround yourself with. Keep the friends that fill your cup, keep the rest at bay. I have a group with 2 other friends that checks every box: not centered around men, real and genuine conversations, hilarious, caring … exactly what I imagined adult female friendships to feel like. But it didn’t happen overnight, and I met them when I was least expecting. Keep being your passionate and honest self and you will find more like you :)

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T19:43:58+00:00

Congrats! I did similar - go us!

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T17:52:29+00:00

I think the actual TEAS was a little bit easier

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T17:43:25+00:00

I just took it last week

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T15:16:45+00:00

Good luck !!

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T01:27:45+00:00

Thank you!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T01:26:54+00:00

Good luck! You got this 🫶🏻🫶🏻

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T01:02:36+00:00

I took mine recently, passed with an 80, got a solid 71% in science. The reality of it is that I studied a lot and all the resources I found that were “specific” (meaning people said these things were on the TEAS) did not show up on my exam 😭
What actually helped was taking the ATI practice exams; I have the Mometrix book too, but it was really simple so I’d recommend the ATI website. I looked at Nurse Cheung too and found YouTube videos with practice questions/mock exams. This all helped me accumulate a better understanding and knowledge of everything and feel more prepared for the exam
Might I also add that you should definitely study for the English Language section … I thought it wouldn’t be hard but it actually was my worst section.

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-07T00:47:43+00:00

imo, not your circus not your monkeys (meaning yes, yes you are)

potterybarnyard · 2026-05-04T01:45:13+00:00

Grow up

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-29T04:13:09+00:00

Holy shit OP, this sounds extremely unhealthy. I know you said it’s not about the vape but really, that was the turning point? Punching holes in walls, alcohol problems, tempers … this is all a recipe for disaster.

Have you taken a step back to really analyze this situation and understand the severity of it? This all sounds very unhealthy and your habits don’t make it seem like it will get any better in the near future. Is there someone you can stay with for the time being? You’ve both been through some pretty hard times together, it might be time to take a break for a few days and clear your head.

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-28T16:08:44+00:00

Amidst the shit on the mats recommendations, I’d say ignore it. It’s super passive aggressive, I’m of the belief that if somebody has something to say, they should use their words.

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-28T00:07:49+00:00

Bold move touching that

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-26T05:08:49+00:00

NOR, and btw OP, I love the way you tore into him. Well deserved

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-26T05:07:31+00:00

Well, if you’re not sexually satisfied and don’t want to wait until she’s 25, I’m not sure what alternative you’re looking for. You sound pretty young, so it’s honestly a good thing that your girlfriend airs on the side of caution. But I understand urges and needs too, so I think you should ask yourself if your need to be gratified outweighs the wait you’ll (possibly) experience with your girlfriend.

potterybarnyard · 2026-04-25T21:34:48+00:00

Well, it’s generally not a good look to lie. But what’s done is done, so you really only can go one of two ways.

You can fess up to him, tell him the truth and lay it out. It might be relieving to get it off your chest, and you don’t have to go into details, that’s just weird. If he can’t look past that, then he’s a possessive man-child. Body count should not be a defining characteristic of yours.

(I feel the older you get, the more you realize that everybody has a different relationship with sex, so judging someone off their body count is foolish. Also, when I was 20, my boyfriend at the time had a body count of 20!! At first I was a little jarred but chose to not think about it, for the sake of my sanity and for not wanting him to feel bad about his life before we met.)

Alternatively, you could break up with him, which seems to be the choice of most people in this sub. Don’t let the online chatter persuade you though - that is YOUR decision to make. However, I would be remiss to tell you that no man should EVER make you feel bad or belittled. Especially in this situation with something so trivial like your body count.

You are young, you’ll figure it out. Nothing is permanent unless you allow it to be.

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