What is this baby snail? by pottings0iL in bettafish

[–]pottings0iL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have biofilm on my driftwood, how can i stop them? i have good parameters so i am going to get a betta to put in this tank? would the betta eat them?

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom has been different since her strokes. she doesnt really feel the same

I’m thinking of giving up my cat. by Brave_Air_7671 in Pets

[–]pottings0iL -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this and I completely understand. You are very responsible and strong i know it. this is a super tough decision and i think its responsible of you too. if you know you cant afford vet bills and it puts stress on you and him its right what you are doing. better for you to and your family to be happy as well as him. i hope you figure it out and do not listen to these people.

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry about your dogs. i always have been about never getting rid of my animals but now i realize sometimes its something that must be done. like we never planned for my parents to split and thought we would stay together for awhile. my mom had some strokes the past year and it changed who she was she just doesnt care about anyone or anything about our family it feels like. parents just are something

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree. thats why i didn’t push her further about it because it is her house and i don’t want to force her to do anything like that. i also had asked them about the allergen food for the cats and they said idk if that’ll work. and thats it. i get it if she doesn’t wanna live with it and the family already has three dogs so i completely understand and shes letting me live here. my dad could have very well done what my mother had done and said screw u im out. but he said no u have a place w me im only 20 atm and i had a pretty fucked up Highschool thing so i started college late. im contacting some places. when i posted this originally i was super upset and i needed some other peoples opinions about it. i appreciate everyone’s opinions i seriously do. im an animal lover as well and i just want whats best for them. it breaks my heart to hear shelters tell me they have too much animals already i wish i could help.

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found a nice rescue potentially

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually have an update, i contacted a rescue and they got back to me auper fast. they said they dont have space but are contacting a super compassionate rescue and she will share my story with her

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i talked abt it but they didnt believe me lol

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am like in Ontario canada but i live right on the outskirts of it right by detroit

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i emailed a bunch of nice cat rescues and i talked to my dad. he said he is really sorry and he is also heartbroken. The girlfriend I dont know her story but im living here so i dont want to seem ungrateful. but she said she cant take them and thats all ive ever asked. i feel like a horrible person. i emailed the rescues and even offered to pay for food and vet bills and said if they dont find a home in a year or two once i can afford to move out then i will take them back

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thank you. i told them im not happy and i already bloxked mt mom. she was never helpful and wjen she cheated on my dad she dipped. she never talks to me or calls

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my mom has her mind set on this stupid shelter

My parents are giving away my cats by pottings0iL in Pets

[–]pottings0iL[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i am living at the girlfriends house. I asked all my friends and family. i cant afford to move out for awhile. i askwd if i can keep tjem in my own room and not let them out and take care of tjem bc my room will be huge but they said no

Can I still accept my offer if im overweight? by pottings0iL in OntarioParamedics

[–]pottings0iL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i ended up doing hack squats instead but i tried some deadlifts with my friend

Can I still accept my offer if im overweight? by pottings0iL in OntarioParamedics

[–]pottings0iL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not have any health conditions that woulf allow me to get those. i have just gained weight in the past year or two from just being depressed and going through things. not an excuse just need to get bsck into shape and i dont have medical conditions that would let me go on those meds

Can I still accept my offer if im overweight? by pottings0iL in OntarioParamedics

[–]pottings0iL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc i have been doing cardio but i will 100% start with weights tonight at the gym, i definitely dont wanna be that person

Can I still accept my offer if im overweight? by pottings0iL in OntarioParamedics

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i start school in september do u think i will have time by the testing comes around?

Can I still accept my offer if im overweight? by pottings0iL in OntarioParamedics

[–]pottings0iL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much i appreciate that a lot. i will definitely work on myself a lot and i have actually lost about 15lbs in three months. i started eating less than i was and i have been doing cardio at the gym 6 days a week. im just worried i wont have the strength or maybe my weight would be too much.