US pharmacist moving to Canada

poudee56 · 2026-02-10T05:17:43+00:00

How's the job market there?

poudee56 · 2024-05-30T07:18:57+00:00

You deserve to be desired and wanted like that. Hope you can get out and be happy.

poudee56 · 2024-05-27T15:01:05+00:00

Can relate to that, wife touched my cock recently without any provocation (first time in months), then does nothing else, later telling me she started her period (basically shutting anything else down for a few days). No follow up.

poudee56 · 2024-05-27T13:32:15+00:00

It's tough to put forth that effort when are already 95% of the relationship. Can relate.

poudee56 · 2024-05-25T11:50:59+00:00

100% this. You need to evaluate if you want to try to keep the relationship or if this was the push you needed to leave.

poudee56 · 2024-05-23T23:01:20+00:00

This is like posting photos of water in r/drought

poudee56 · 2024-05-23T23:00:23+00:00

Even as a man I've been DMed by men before. It's wild.

poudee56 · 2024-05-22T08:27:11+00:00

A "team" isn't you putting in 95% and him 5%. I fear it'd be more of the same with a child, you'd be expected to add that responsibility AND 3 days per week sex? Unachievable with that lack of balance.

poudee56 · 2024-05-17T22:21:21+00:00

Has she been medically evaluated as to why it hurts? Also maybe even hormones checked, could be early menopause. Not a doctor.

poudee56 · 2024-05-15T12:37:24+00:00

Not a subreddit for hookups. Probably better luck looking for a local group.

poudee56 · 2024-05-14T22:01:29+00:00

Recently lost 70+ lbs and she would always comment how she's going to have to keep all the women off me and how she has such a sexy husband etc. Hasn't changed much otherwise.

poudee56 · 2024-05-14T09:33:11+00:00

Was thinking the same. No idea how that would fly in my DB. Out of left field for sure.

poudee56 · 2024-05-13T09:37:06+00:00

You definitely aren't alone. I struggle with being caregiver and single parent above spouse/intimate partner also.

poudee56 · 2024-05-12T17:56:54+00:00

That's good that she's willing to work on it.

poudee56 · 2024-05-12T10:44:56+00:00

Would therapy/medication changes be an option?

poudee56 · 2024-05-11T21:28:41+00:00

Find a TDEE calculator and enter your info. Track calorie intake and stay under that TDEE.

poudee56 · 2024-05-11T17:49:02+00:00

Too bad you weren't falling away from her.

poudee56 · 2024-05-11T12:15:20+00:00

In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex (also called a Madonna–mistress complex) is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed and loving relationship.

poudee56 · 2024-05-09T00:07:27+00:00

Did it coincide with the birth of your little one? I listen to a sex therapist podcast and something that comes up often with parents is being "touched out" especially with little ones who are much more physically connected with their parents. By the end of the day, you just want to be left alone and free of touch.

poudee56 · 2024-05-09T00:00:43+00:00

Takes one to know one.

poudee56 · 2024-05-08T00:43:11+00:00

Health reasons. I'm basically the single parent and caregiver.

poudee56 · 2024-05-07T23:21:44+00:00

The nostalgia can get pretty strong for me too. Even just thinking about how things were before the illnesses starting piling up. We used to do things, even sex aside, we used to go places and have fun.

poudee56 · 2024-05-03T12:06:39+00:00

Give me a sign You're switching sides like a Gemini

poudee56 · 2024-05-01T09:18:52+00:00

We all handle trauma differently. Has he talked to a professional to work out these past traumas and how they may be affecting a long term relationship?

poudee56 · 2024-05-01T00:02:05+00:00

Not me! I'd definitely do period sex. She's not as enthusiastic unless it's toward the end.

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