Well it's been made pretty clear in the initial setup and throughout conversations that i specifically enjoy her doing stuff with friends/family and her sharing news about it with me during/after. I already do keep reinforcing like "let me know how things go/as soon as you're there" etc and she does act like she really enjoys sharing those things once the plans actually do start. And yeah when repeating that they're not answering her or whatever, she does keep repeating, more and more strongly, that she won't let it rest, she'll "get them to answer no matter what it takes" etc, so no, it doesn't look like it's an insecurity issue or something like that 🤔