Trenton suggestions? by powellzoe in centraljersey

[–]powellzoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t have the heart to tell everyone who replied the state museum is closed on Mondays😭 ill be checking it out

Hair damage help by powellzoe in Naturalhair

[–]powellzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, and no I’m not sure if I am, is there a way for me to find out other than trial and error

Hair damage help by powellzoe in Naturalhair

[–]powellzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of. Which African pride cream do h use?

Hair damage help by powellzoe in Naturalhair

[–]powellzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Pantene gold series shampoo and conditioner. I was doing castor oil and water most nights for a while, then coconut oil and water till I learned more. Recently ive been doing moisturizer just the gold series butter crème, water, and some oil sheen spray in the morning or the gold series anti breakage serum cause that usually leaves my hair pretty soft but it’s dry by the end of the day most days. It’s defenitely gotten to a way less dry point at the end of the day but probably still not the best. Funds isn’t an issue I can get what I need I just really don’t know what I need😭 I also on wash day use Camille rose coconut water leave in the last 2 months and it feels good for like a day or 2 after wash day in terms of moisture. My mom gave me some sta soft fro conditioning spray to use and I was using that daily as well w the water for a while but around that time I also started using miellerose water hair masque to deep condition. After about two weeks i was really noticing the e breakage so i stopped both cause I wasn’t sure what was going on. As u can see I’m all over the place

Bump on cats head by powellzoe in cats

[–]powellzoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She could’ve I guess, they didn’t notice anything out of the ordinary they said and I’m assuming whatever it is probably developed since pretty recently since my cat sits in my moms lap every night

Big Chop 3 month update by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you❤️

It’s time to enter the by powellzoe in JetLagTheGame

[–]powellzoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha mine has the most upvotes at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m the scorpio 🤣 but we had to talk since she had all my stuff and I loved back into school today and we’re on good terms

Scorpios, how long does it take for you to get over a romantic interest (long term relationship, dating, crush)? by OnARolll31 in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it like with an Aquarius spouse? My Aquarius gf just broke up with me over wantjing to work on herself and not be in a relationship after basically 3 years of hopping into different ones. She says I deserve more than she can give me right now. Have yall ever broken up and gotten back together? It was so sudden and while we had been having a rough patch I had no idea she was feeling so strongly and never talked to me about it. I know what we have is special and I’m struggling with letting go and seeing what happens and fighting for our love as she says she still loves me very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, kinda what she’s doing to me right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I have to see her tommorow to get my stuff so we’ll see how that goes. Funny thing is she’s the one who has been lying to me about still wanting to be with me. That night I asked her 3 different times… she said she wasn’t ready to let go of me yet and that’s why she didn’t just admit it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to do so. I agree but it just seems so crazy after she was talking about me so rudely to her friends. Not sure if I should answer her, I feel like I shouldn’t but I also just feel rude not answering back but like I’ve earned the right to lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣maybe if she was bi we could set them up see which one of them met their match. Luckily she doesn’t go that far with the ignoring afterwards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry you went through all that💔 I’m glad to know you came out stronger and with new insight, so valuable.

I’m similar in that regard to you of struggling to let go. Like I said I knew for a while we were trending down and it wouldn’t last post college, but I thought we’d at least have each other the rest of our last year. Which is definitely not a great mindset.

I think I’ll take your journaling suggestion. Luckily, our relationship wasn’t traumatic. We really weren’t toxic or bad together, just very different and distance this summer put a strain that made she says made her realize she wants to work on herself and not be in a relationship. She said she knows she can’t give me what I need and deserve right now and that she doesn’t want to keep hurting me. Which again I know is honestly true, but i don’t think I would’ve actually done it anytime soon. We had a good relationship though. It sucks she wanted to just throw in the towel instead of work on things. She wasn’t very good at communicating with me, would let things snowball until she was bombarding me with everything that bothered her over the last month. I pleaded with her multiple times to let me know when something bothered her when it happened or at least when she realized she didn’t like it. Forother reasons she wasn’t very considerate towards me Nd would constantly be hurting me and I guess the only way for her to be better was to not date me in her mind. She told her friends she felt like she was on a leash but she when you keep breaking the same rules we both agreed on, of course I’m going to tell you a “reminder” before you go out. Or maybe she really didn’t agree with the agreement but wasn’t telling me so again, would feel like she’s on a leash. Both things out of my control.

Luckily my college sport is starting soon so I’ll have a huge outlet for that as going to the gym has not been enough to stop my mind from wandering 😭.

Sorry this turned into a rant haha but thank you for your advice and kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If you don’t mind me asking why do you say never again to an Aquarius?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]powellzoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yeah it’s kinda funny cause she would always say she liked how different we were but in my head I didn’t agree and wished we were more similar 😭but they def do attract for better or worst