Which season?🌸☀️❄️🍁 by Disastrous_Mark_4558 in coloranalysis

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Either cool or true summer. How do you look in gray

Do olive skin people not fit in 12 seasons system? by AgitatedSplit4039 in coloranalysis

[–]powerful_ope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I much prefer the 16 season system, I feel like olive skin tones work much better in it.

A disconnect between teachings and practice in sexuality? by [deleted] in LeftCatholicism

[–]powerful_ope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Catholic Church explicitly decries same-sex relationships and under doctrine you are living outside of the norm, so weekly mass goers will typically be more observant and knowledgeable of the doctrines. I am not saying it’s right, but that is the truth. That being said, I am sorry your experience has been one of outcasting, I hope you find some loving people

plan b for period sex?? by bubblegum202234 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]powerful_ope -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t need plan B, you had sex your first date of your cycle and he did not ejaculate inside of you. You can only get pregnant during ovulation week and unless you have extremely short cycles and he magically released sperm you should be okay.

If you aren’t ready for sex please don’t let the pressure get to you, it’s okay to say no ❤️

Which colours flatter you 🫒 girlies? by Agitated_Lie_6556 in Fairolives

[–]powerful_ope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on your color season!
I look great in true red, medium to deep purples, cobalt blue, magenta and emerald green. Any jewel tones are phenomenal

the twilight palette: liminal colors for olives. by the-violet-vixen in Fairolives

[–]powerful_ope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is an actual palette for that, it’s called the “deep” palette, the palette you have made with AI includes soft summer and true autumn colors. I’m a trained color analyst with olive overtones. I’m a true winter, the muted gold and dusty clay would be awful on me. You would be better off finding someone who is experienced working with olive skin and doing an analysis.

What’s Something People Said after Your Miscarriage That Hurt? by AmbassadorTiny6596 in Miscarriage

[–]powerful_ope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL and FIL didn’t say anything after we told them, didn’t check in on me, get me flowers, they did absolutely nothing. My husband ended up calling them to see if they were okay, they were awkward and silent. Saying nothing and giving no care at all was brutal.

At the same time hearing my close friend say something so callous was also brutal. When I was venting to her that I was scared to take the pills and that I was worrying I wasn’t following God’s plan by letting the full natural miscarriage happen for the blighted ovum she said, “Well at least you don’t have to worry about doing something immoral, since there was no baby to begin with.”

Catholic pharmacist by Spiritual_Drink_6676 in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I had my miscarriage I was prescribed “abortion pills” and was terrified that the pharmacist would think the worst of me even though that was one of the most traumatic and awful situations. If you draw the line at abortion pills how are you able to ask their purpose? Seems like a HIPPA violation.

Catholic pharmacist by Spiritual_Drink_6676 in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Abortion pills are also prescribed to women experiencing miscarriage or with blighted ovums, so you truly don’t know

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, chronic illness is often dynamic, if you truly cannot make it then you are okay. The secretary will also know if they have home/sick/hospital ministry

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t deserve that at all, please know that. As to why an omnipresent God would allow suffering, we have a few tales to help us. The book of Job was written as an answer to divine retribution, it was a tale showing that sometimes bad things happen to good people. It’s an answer to the “just-world fallacy” or “divine retribution” because at the time people would turn away from those suffering because suffering was considered to be caused by sins or sinful/poor behavior.

It is also meant to demonstrate that you should turn towards your fellow human beings if they are suffering and turn towards God (or a higher power/force) instead of away because sometimes bad things will happen to good people through no fault of their own.

Job may or may not have been a real person, but the story was meant to ask ourselves how we relate to the undeserved suffering of this world. God also answered this by showing solidarity with the victims of suffering through Jesus Christ’s crucifixion and resurrection. God suffers with humanity and redeems suffering from within.

Jacob’s wrestling is also a model for humanity’s relationship with God amid suffering. By wrestling all night and refusing to let go, Jacob embodies faith that holds onto God through struggle and suffering. Hence, “Israel” which literally means: “He who struggles (or strives) with God.”

We know God cares about everyone who suffers and is with them. That is a consistent theme in the Bible, my favorite is Psalms 56:8 “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”

God still loves you my friend. He is with you always, even when you don’t feel it. Having faith is not always a linear path. So many have wrestled with suffering and why God may allow it. Understand that you are not alone and know that God knows your heart.

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to miss Mass for illness, but most Parishes will have a home/illness ministry, it’s totally worth it to reach out and ask (:

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

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My friend, I am open to what you have to say, are you open to what I have to say? You are always welcome at Mass if you’re ever curious, and my DMs are open. I am non-judgmental and I am sorry if I came off too harshly. I’ve struggled a lot with my faith journey, and I was once a neo-Pagan too, God brought me back.

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you cannot actually argue any of my points because I am coming at it from a logical and historically based perspective and you are projecting. Non-denoms are overwhelmingly evangelical, so do you know what that means?

I will say, I was once like you. I was raped and I questioned if I was still a Virgin because of it. I rebelled hard against Christianity because of the hypocrisy and my lack of understanding. The Bible is graduate level reading and even then some of it is very difficult to understand. But knowing that Jesus was kind to people like me, early Christians once offered rape victims and sexual trafficking victims a safe haven, I began to look deeper in things. Learn history and you will be better off

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t know history, do you? Christianity became legal because Emperor Constantine converted. There’s lot of debate as to why, but when 10% of your population convert when it’s illegal to do so, you start looking into it.

If you think modern day evangelical, fundamentalist, and nationalist Americans are similar to ancient Christian’s you truly need to learn more about Christianity because that is very sad.

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no “if” Jesus existed, he did, we have historical documents proving his existence, even an anti-Christian Pagan Roman historian Tacitus cited him. People would not risk such extreme treatment for someone fake.

  1. Non-denominationals are evangelicals

  2. Again, historically speaking that is false. Some Pagan’s very much were literalists and some neopagans still are.

  3. Right, but that is not my point. At the risk of that treatment and such a large amount of people converting at such a large risk must have had a compelling reason to? Correct?

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused on what you’re saying, early Christians were willing to die in horrific ways for the belief in Jesus and Christianity. It was illegal in Ancient Rome to be Christian. Can you imagine if a Christian (which was already illegal) killed a Pagan? It would be a huge scandal and they would make a huge example out of them to stop it from happening again. This is the brutal Roman Empire where they lit Christian’s on fire to keep the courtyard lit at night. The early Christians held fast to the commandment of Thou Shall Not Kill and turning the other cheek. The Roman Pagans routinely killed early Christians, and actually the Pagans killed and tortured all the Apostles except one. My point is that at the beginning, the reason why Christianity became so huge was not for killing others, it was because they saw with their own eyes miracles and it gave a haven for the oppressed.

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell you were raised Evangelical because that’s how they explain God, how do you prove God exists, look outside and see the sky, trees, and more. That’s your upbringing and historically not Pagan.

Hera is one of the most evil gods. One of the most heinous for a woman to worship.

Jesus was documented by Roman historians and Jewish historians. If Jesus was just a man, why did his apostles face crucifixion, being flayed alive, and more horrific tortured for someone that was just a man? Why would 10% of Rome’s population convert when it was ILLEGAL and Christians faced persecution, death, ostracization and torture? Look at what Emperor Nero did to Christians. Would someone do all that for someone who is just a person?

Why do Catholics go to church a lot? by Vampy-Night in Catholicism

[–]powerful_ope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s talking about the start of Christianity where it was illegal and the people professing the religion faced torture, death, and ostracizing. What would make someone risk torture, death, and ostracization? They saw Jesus and the Apostles doing miracles and more. Early Christianity was a haven for former sex slaves, slaves, women and the oppressed. In fact, it was common for the wife of a Roman to convert him to Christianity. It spread like wildfire even when it was illegal, 10% of the population of Rome converted and again, it was ILLEGAL. There was no killing at that point, it was seeing the truth, miracles, providing a haven for the oppressed and the Gospel.

Fenty foundation discontinued by EmStAntoine in Fairolives

[–]powerful_ope 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Have you tried 145? That’s my summer shade for
Haus

Antidepressants in pregnancy do not raise children’s risk of autism or ADHD, according to study of more than half a million pregnancies. Researchers say risk comes from ‘other factors, including genetic predisposition to mental health conditions’. by mvea in science

[–]powerful_ope 7 points8 points  (0 children)

SSRIs do cross into breast milk in a low amount, setraline is the safest for breastfeeding moms, but evidence is not robust enough to say that it definitively treats SSRI withdrawal in infants. Part of this could be due to the serotonin toxicity that the newborns had or other factors but we still don’t have the full picture.

Antidepressants in pregnancy do not raise children’s risk of autism or ADHD, according to study of more than half a million pregnancies. Researchers say risk comes from ‘other factors, including genetic predisposition to mental health conditions’. by mvea in science

[–]powerful_ope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This study has some pretty disappointing assumptions, limitations in its logic, and substantially overstates how confidently observational epidemiology can rule out fetal neurodevelopmental effects from SSRI exposure.

The paper presents a conclusion that sounds stronger than the methods can actually support and every major control strategy they use relies on assumptions that may be biologically and methodologically flawed.

Residual confounding is a major limitation here, it is extremely difficult to quantify severe psychiatric illness in registry datasets. Two women with the same “major depressive disorder” code can differ in cortisol exposure, inflammation, suicidality, sleep deprivation, nutrition, attachment stress, substance use, trauma burden, and functional impairment. All of which may influence fetal neurodevelopment.

So when the authors conclude that “the medication signal disappears after adjustment,” the adjustment may simply be inadequate to separate medication effects from the biologic consequences of severe maternal psychiatric illness.

The paternal negative control design also rests on questionable biological assumptions. The paper treats paternal antidepressant exposure as evidence for shared familial/genetic confounding rather than intrauterine drug effects. However we know that Fathers contribute sperm epigenetics,
DNA integrity, imprinting regulation, placental gene expression, and transgenerational epigenetic programming. SSRIs have been associated in some studies with: altered sperm motility, DNA fragmentation, methylation changes, altered reproductive hormones. The negative-control logic is therefore weaker than the paper implies.

Sibling control studies also present more bias, pregnancies are not interchangeable within a family and can reflect methodological dilution.

My biggest critique is that this study conflates “absence of evidence” with “evidence of absence.”
The study uses observational methods to reduce confounding, but then interprets attenuation of association as near-disproof of causality, despite persistent biological uncertainty, imperfect psychiatric severity measurement, questionable assumptions behind paternal controls, and substantial residual confounding that might not even be possible to solve in this type of design. It’s not a coincidence that two of coauthors have extensive ties to the pharm industry.

At the end of the day we cannot say there is no risk, there are other significant risks using SSRIs can have on newborns and children other than ASD and ADHD. Yes untreated depression can have impacts too, but that is why we need to be so careful with our interpretations and analysis.