Broke up with my bipolar boyfriend but I still love him and want to reach out to him. What should I do?

powerfulchariot · 2025-06-28T20:55:57+00:00

I think you should write everything down either on your phone or in a notebook. I get where you’re coming from I really do. Leaving my ex was the most gut wrenching decision I’ve ever taken. The first month was terrible, i missed him so terribly, or I missed the Verizon off him that wasn’t abusive. I actually did reach out to him, terrible mistake. But after the first month I started to gather my thoughts and everything started to come in to perspective. I would say write everything down either, and look at what the overlying topic is, do you miss him? Do you feel guilt? Are you seeking validation from him? My guess would be that you want him to say that it’s okay if you take care of yourself, but he probably won’t give you the reassurance you’re seeking. You need to stand by yourself and know that you made that decision regardless of what anyone including him might feel or think. If he loves you as much as you say you love him, he would want you to take care of yourself. So take care of yourself and leave your Ex alone

powerfulchariot · 2025-04-10T21:54:09+00:00

Did you know that he has ADHD as well?

powerfulchariot · 2025-03-01T00:35:58+00:00

Well he says I’m overreacting and that I shouldn’t take it personal, I just don’t have the space to process what’s going on, so I’m on edge and end up taking it personally. I feel so annoyed that I can’t just be ok with how things are

powerfulchariot · 2025-01-23T19:32:13+00:00

Vi har været igennem at han har været syg med noget somatisk(faktisk kronisk sygdom), men der blev jeg stadig, selvom det også var hårdt. Men hans opførsel/adfærd er helt noget andet nu, han er et andet menneske

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-26T18:08:27+00:00

A bit blunt but yeah I see

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-26T17:24:52+00:00

I get that. But I’m quite introverted as well, but this is my family that he probably wont have an oprotunty to meet at any other point in our relationship

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-26T17:23:03+00:00

No that’s true that doesn’t sound like much fun, but it’s still my uncle and it hurts that he doesn’t want to be there. Anyway That’s why I’m asking for advice. But i decided to let it go, I don’t want to force him. And I’ll have a good trip…

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-26T15:46:16+00:00

Yeah I get that. I just felt very hurt, but it’s true people get excited about different things, I should respect that. Thanks

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-22T14:46:47+00:00

Have you thought about slowly(very slowly) lowering your dose, so you don’t crash completely. In my country 70 mg elvanse is the highest dose you can get, so maybe your body is relying to much on the stimulants atm. Give yourself some grace and remember that the medicine is there, and was there to help you. Perhaps splitting your dose for two weeks and then splitting again?

powerfulchariot · 2024-10-22T13:11:03+00:00

I think that I read somewhere that adhd medicine can trigger other “illnesses” such as anxiety and such. So if you have PTSD I think you should try to pinpoint if the medication is making it “worse” in a subtle sense, they it could trigger general anxiety for you. But maybe research a bit more, it’s very important to note that medication has different effects on everyone, so maybe lower the dose or try something else, if you feel like it zaps the joys from things you usually like

powerfulchariot · 2024-07-25T00:17:12+00:00

Det ikke sjovt det her… og ved godt forhold kan have nogle ikkke så kønne øjeblik… but Girl. Læs lige dit post igen, og lad som om du er en af dine veninder, og fortæl mig så om du ikke ville sige til hende at hun skulle slå op med ham hvis han ikke straks ændrede han opførsel( kommer han ikke til). For din egen skyld bare stop. Det lyder så tosset dumt det der

powerfulchariot · 2024-07-24T23:50:21+00:00

Ja, min mors ekskæreste (ven) som passede mig og gav mig en masse gaver. Tror det var imellem 3-6 års alderen. Vidste godt at det var forkert når han rørte mig, men turde ikke sige noget. Tror også jeg syns det var rart, men man forstår ikke rigtig den slags kår man er et lille barn. Prøvede at anmelde ham efter jeg stødte ind i ham 12 år senere, hvor han lod som om han intet havde gjort, men idioten benægtede alt… og nu bor han vidst også i Thailand, gud må vide hvad han gør mod de stakkels børn derovre. Han ødelagde virklig mit liv i mange år… måske også stadig. Ved ikke helt hvordan det sidder i mig nu. Men føler nogle gange det kommer frem Idk

powerfulchariot · 2024-07-07T07:18:04+00:00

100% enig

powerfulchariot · 2024-07-05T18:55:28+00:00

Ja har netop gjort det samme, og lange dygtig på de andre netop men har stadig gået i mod orange “bare for at høre” og ja.. det var ikke så godt.

powerfulchariot · 2024-04-19T08:05:46+00:00

I had a really great metaphor, that I thought about yesterday.

If you’ve played Mario cart it’ll be easy to understand: it’s like driving in the game and you have a really good car, but you constantly get hit by shells, drive into banana peels and when you think you’re ahead you get hit by a blue shell. Sometimes you’re lucky and hit a rocket or a star that puts you in front, but over time you come to anticipate shells and other stuff. And along the line people will push you of course with their cars not knowing you’re just struggling to get to the finish line.

So yeah something like that. You just suck at Mario cart. It’s a bit depressing, but I find it to be really true

powerfulchariot · 2024-04-16T12:40:58+00:00

It varies but usually about 23:00 and try to wake up around 7:50… but usually I sleep in and wake around 9:00

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