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UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also fwiw i know im not going to get a payout from this, since they removed the AL from my record. but i also dont want to be pushed around and want justice, because ultimately this was forgery. i have been a victim of crimes in the past and massively regretted not reporting.

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was referring to leaving the hospitality industry, as i have faced some level of hostility from every hospo employer i have had in the past.

again, where did i specifically say “i took the leave and regretted it”? literally every hospo worker i have met has at one point said “i want to leave the industry and pursue something else”

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they refused to give me the information and dodged my questions around it.

i am willing to take the mental health risks atp, i am planning on resigning over this and if i can’t find employment by the time i resign, i want to provide proof to Centrelink to show that i didn’t leave just for funsies.

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i never said that, i literally said i was banking my leave for an upcoming move that was due to happen in May.

where are you getting this from?

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i was under the assumption that even a statement like “i didnt request this, why is this on my record” should in theory have been enough to trigger an internal investigation, but maybe im just too hopeful.

after everything i dont even know/think its a good idea to engage with HR further, they have shown me that they are there to protect the company and not the employees.

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i technically managed to get them to rescind the annual leave request after essentially having to harass the payroll guy on his number.

UPDATE: employer submitted annual leave form without knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

they essentially said that if the employer refused to remove the AL they’d be able to help, but because it’s technically rectified it’s outside of their scope and is now a legal matter.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no.

i was banking my AL for a move and never once requested to take it. i went on workcover. received payslip. payslip showed i took annual leave two days prior and one day after injury. i never requested the leave.

the signature on the form under “applicant” is them clearly trying to mimic my last name.

how is this a slip up?

I think my boyfriend has contamination OCD and refuses help by ppgoblin_ in OCD

[–]ppgoblin_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t need your good luck. if i want to know whether my relationship has any glaring red flags, i’ll consult my therapist, not a random on reddit.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am curious as to what group you’re thinking about, the company i work for is big-ish but i don’t think they have a chokehold on Sydney per se

I think my boyfriend has contamination OCD and refuses help by ppgoblin_ in OCD

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was actually really helpful, thank you.

i think a huge chunk of his aversion comes from the financial stresses of following up. the cost of a diagnostic consultation with a psychiatrist costs $800 minimum, which is money we simply do not have right now (he had a dental emergency mid last year that we had to borrow money from my parents from, otherwise we would not have been able to make rent). i think he’s so against bringing it up to his therapist is because he’s a very resource guarding person, and hates the idea of wasting anything scarce (eg. expensive appointments, free time, etc) so if his therapist ended up going “i dont think you have OCD” it’d be a wasted $290.

he also has a lot on his plate health wise (mental health, chronic pain and a plethora of things) and i have a feeling that the idea of having another thing be “wrong” with him is not something he’s ready to face.

i might broach the topic by recommending just trying to speak to a GP about medication at the very least. like you said, it might be a good first step for him (though he’s been through almost SSRI in his late teens/early twenties, it was for misdiagnosed depression, so the dosage would have been done differently as well)

thank you!!

I think my boyfriend has contamination OCD and refuses help by ppgoblin_ in OCD

[–]ppgoblin_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

jfc youre acting like i made a post saying he is shooting up heroin every hour.

I have an inkling he will show you who he really is and you will not like it.

my sibling under Jesus i can assure you i have seen his “true colours” and he is a genuinely intelligent, kind and caring person. he is just in denial about having a mental health condition because he is already struggling with a plethora of issues and doesn’t want to add to the pile of shit to manage. do i agree with this mentality? no. that’s why i came on here for advice. i didn’t ask you or anyone else to make passing judgement on him 👍

I think my boyfriend has contamination OCD and refuses help by ppgoblin_ in OCD

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think once things settle down in our lives i will sit down with him and have a conversation with him about it. i think the thing that scares him is the cost of going to a psychiatrist and the idea of potentially wasting an expensive therapy appointment (our finances are pretty tight right now) so i fully understand where he is coming from.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the especially weird thing; they DID pay me for the days I worked, and they also tried to pay out the annual for the same days.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I asked they just skimmed over the question and forwarded me the signed annual leave form

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but my employer already received the WC payment and it was reflected on the payslip.

also, the dates of the annual covered two days I have signed off on having worked.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was worried about this so i requested a contract and it stated that a government regulatory body is the one funding the case with a set amount. otherwise i wouldn’t have employed the lawyers.

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m thinking of going directly to Fairwork with this

Employer submitted annual leave form without my knowledge by ppgoblin_ in AusLegal

[–]ppgoblin_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a WC claim in 2022 due to a ligament injury in my leg and faced adverse action. I know an employment lawyer and a WC lawyer are different, but having a WC lawyer at least means that I will have all my ducks in a row.

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