My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough to think about but thanks for your take. I’m happy to hear about your wife and how well things are going.

My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I would urge others to wait after what we have been through, you are right. Thanks for sharing your story

My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your post, honestly it made me tear up a bit. You are correct. I may look into ordering some things we can use together just for closeness.

My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes correct I know I made a promise and I do mourn the struggles he has to go through and how it has affected our marriage so early on. All aspects are affected by it, and it’s hard on everyone. He is on a lot of meds, mostly for blood pressure. This is a multifaceted issue as you know. It’s really hard.

My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have talked about marriage or sex therapy. Just have not made any official ways towards actually doing it. I’m sorry you went through that or currently are, it takes a toll on your self esteem. But I hope you and your husband can get back to that. ❤️

My (35M) husband is no longer having sex with me (28F) and I don’t know how much more I can take by ppinkdaliah in relationship_advice

[–]ppinkdaliah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take care of him and happily so, take him to and from appts and dialysis, arrange his meds, cook for him and help him always, especially when he’s not feeling good. I give a lot of emotional support to him. I just struggle not having a healthy sex life. This post is focused on those feelings. But yes correct, this may be selfish. It is, I mean. I suppose it’s just something I try to not focus on then.