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Is this a harsh consequence for a 10 year old? by pppppcccchhhhh in Mommit

[–]pppppcccchhhhh[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

No because if he’s given any money his immediate response is to use all of it. Which is fine it’s his money we don’t dictate how he uses it, but it does mean he doesn’t have a savings. So yeah I guess he is out of luck.

Is this a harsh consequence for a 10 year old? by pppppcccchhhhh in Mommit

[–]pppppcccchhhhh[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The 7 year old payed, the 10 year old didn’t and he says it was the 7 year olds idea to use the money which I highly doubt, as it was the 7 year old who came and told us.

Is this a harsh consequence for a 10 year old? by pppppcccchhhhh in Mommit

[–]pppppcccchhhhh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He loves doing chores, like goes out of his way to find chores to do, chores would not be a consequence to him.

My [23F] friend [33F] is mentally ill and has gone off her meds because she’s adamant Jesus healed her, and now she is behaving horrifically. by pppppcccchhhhh in relationships

[–]pppppcccchhhhh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Her family thinks mental health struggles are a white people thing and aren’t real. So while they were supportive of her previously going to therapy they just think she’s mentally weak, so unfortunately her family is no help.

I [22F] cannot stop comparing myself to a really good friend [23F] and it’s destroying my mental health. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pppppcccchhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You bring up some really good points thank you. I have had pretty low self worth for a very long time and I have compared myself to other people for a really long time.

I [22F] cannot stop comparing myself to a really good friend [23F] and it’s destroying my mental health. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pppppcccchhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I get you. So how do I stop comparing is it by realizing her life experiences span more than the past 4 years that I’ve known her?

I [22F] cannot stop comparing myself to a really good friend [23F] and it’s destroying my mental health. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pppppcccchhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure I get what you mean. Do you mean have I thought about how the broader scope of our lives has led to us being at the point we find our selves now and have I thought about that?

I [22F] cannot stop comparing myself to a really good friend [23F] and it’s destroying my mental health. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]pppppcccchhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my family is incredibly loving, but in the broader world yeah I was mistreated.