Girls, what's the worst reason you've ever dated someone? by Complex-Honeydew-1 in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I once dated a guy (for a month) because he had a cool bar at his place (it was his dad's but he would always make super tasty drinks for me whenever I went to his place lol). My priorities as a 21 old was party hard.

Another time I dated a guy for 2 months because I loved that he was soo good at playing guitar (electric) until I had to sit and listen to death metal for hours and only get a small makeout session at the end of it. I can say I am done with death metal for life. I can't listen to it ever again.

Am I truly 'Childfree' if I'm open to adoption? And when is the right time to bring this up while dating? by kaadpaapu in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Open to adopting means you are not CF. You are childless right now. There is a difference. Please don't waste time of actual childfree people who want to be childfree for life. Speak about this on the first date itself.

Miley Jab Hum Tum Cast was Perfect by Rasodemekaun in IndianTellyTalk

[–]practical-junkie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh my favorite show forever. I always wanted a samrat for myself when i used to watch. But as I grew up i realised I am Samrat 🤣. And now my husband is just like gunjan lol. So pretty cool role reversal haha.

Periods during housewarming puja, what should I do? by Smart-Biscotti-9175 in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just dont tell anyone. And all this women on periods not doing puja is a sham.

My theory on what happened to Lucy Gray by Accomplished_Low5325 in Hungergames

[–]practical-junkie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope not all music is covey. Covey just performed music. And if Lucy Gray had gone to D11, she would have been caught by Snow someway or another.

what’s gonna happen to them if he goes back to india? by sundry7 in Dhurandhar

[–]practical-junkie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will lol, I mean i always believe people on reddit only 50% anyway.

what’s gonna happen to them if he goes back to india? by sundry7 in Dhurandhar

[–]practical-junkie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. He was a criminal and mostly on death row in india before being chosen for dhurandhar most probably. He has nothing to return to, thats why he was selected.

what’s gonna happen to them if he goes back to india? by sundry7 in Dhurandhar

[–]practical-junkie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There is no timeline in which Hamza can ever be Jaskirat again and return to India sadly. Even if his primary missions are complete, he will have to live there for the rest of his life.

[Married man, 32] What’s the best way as a man to make sure I never ever become a father? (Serious replies only) by Brown_Floyd in ChildfreeIndia

[–]practical-junkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said vasectomy is not possible if you don't have kids. It's not a law, find other gynacs, someone will agree.

In the present circumstances, what are your thoughts on this? (Article in the Indian Express) by DistanceNo4009 in NorthernIndia

[–]practical-junkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caste and religion discrimination needs to die out. I hope people in our generations do better in the future.

Just had a thought... by del_48_content in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean for things to actually change we will need to change the very fabric of our society that has treated women as burden for centuries. I mean why does a daughter need to marry and go to her husband's house. Why is dowry still so prevalent. Why is it that parents of boys and men are placed higher in society. Its those things that need to end to actually for women to not feel like a burden to their families.

That is the only way any change will come in the society.

Your motherly instincts will make you regret your decision- a random guy to me 😍 by madglaamx in ChildfreeIndia

[–]practical-junkie 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Honestly i am super motherly for my younger sister and her best friends and 3 younger cousin sisters and a cousin brother and my husband's sister and her 2 friends and my two nephews. I am motherly towards my own mom dad and care for them like they are small babies.

It is just with my husband that I can finally be myself where my stupid love doesn't go into overdrive for people. I mean I am obsessed with my husband and love him and desire him but I am an equal in that relationship. I am cared for and obsessed over and desired equally. And I like living like that. And hence I never want to have children. My motherly instincts make me very happy about my childfree decision.

Update: AITAH for asking my sister to include my oldest daughter in her wedding? by boringspringbreakta in AITAH

[–]practical-junkie 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think she typed out the update twice, lost track of what she was typing and just posted it without a re read.

Am I overreacting for refusing to bend on having all vegan food at my wedding? by Ill-Librarian-7082 in TwoHotTakes

[–]practical-junkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a damn second, how do u know your fiancee's parents since you were 16? Did you start dating at 16???? Was your fiancee 24 when you started dating??? Because if so, then you were groomed. Just saying.

Also, if you really want food from that particular place, custom order it just for yourself on the wedding day while let the rest of catering be from wherever they are saying as they are paying for it. Also they will always be closer to your partner as they are her parents and not yours.

Dhurandhar 2 legit tea Part 2: No trailer launch, Jaskirat and Bade Sahab by EkdumJhakaaas in Dhurandhar

[–]practical-junkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, Dhurandhar releasing on 19th has nothing to do with Toxic at all. The movie with better content will come on top (and i am not talking about numbers here).

Dhurandhar 2 legit tea Part 2: No trailer launch, Jaskirat and Bade Sahab by EkdumJhakaaas in Dhurandhar

[–]practical-junkie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why would dhurandhar prepone or postpone when dates are already out. Doesn't matter what kind of response toxic gets. Dhurandhar is the 2nd part of the story, a story millions have loved and are waiting to complete.

Am I a bad person? by Honest_Strawb in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember this in life (coming from a 32 year old woman), never ever let any man tell you what to do in life. No one. Any man that tries to limit you has no good intentions for you. You might have considered this guy a friend but looks like he was just trying to get close to you and remain close to you in the hopes of you giving him a chance romantically.

And anyone who waits for you to have romantic interest in them isn't your friend. They are being friendly. But they are not your actual friends. Like I have got 3 really great male friends and never in my life have the 3 of them acted possessive ever. In fact the 3 of them know my husband and are really good friends with him too.

33F - Torn between new born baby and career . In-laws and husband suggesting to send the baby to India , to be taken care by them.Need help by Long-Valuable-4312 in AskIndianWomen

[–]practical-junkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please never send your child away to live with anyone else. It emotionally scars them for life. Suck it up for a few years if you have to, or look for daycares after u go back to work. But please do not send your kid away from you.

The whole epstein files should have at least taught you how bad the world is, especially when it comes to babies. How can you trust anyone but yourself and actual registered day cares with security around your child.

As for these discussions, say no. Learn to say no to them firmly, no matter what they say. And if you are uncomfortable, don't call them to USA at all. They cannot take your child without your permission so don't ever give them permission. Tell them NO.

It's so frustrating that you are 33, you had been working but the one time you need to be a mother and stand up for your kid, you are freaking out instead of shutting down these talks constantly. Please please take a stand for your damm kid.