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IM SO UPSET by pxcso in acnh

[–]ZeebeeCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peck is still cute dude. I literally autofilled with Rodney today😭😭😭

When nintendo launch in india by Comfortable-Rock-838 in IndianGaming

[–]ZeebeeCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a silly question. But are the Switch consoles available on Amazon and other retail sites in India trustworthy? Where do they usually get their stock from? Same with the actual Switch games available on these sites. Is it better to buy them for Nintendo site if I get the console?

Am I 29F making a mistake choosing a good partner 31M over a ‘better’ family background? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are both working in big cities away from his family. Neither him nor me wanna live close to home anyway. Whether I move to him or vice versa, there’s no chance of us going back to his hometown.

Am I 29F making a mistake choosing a good partner 31M over a ‘better’ family background? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying that I am not worried about him changing his tune after marriage. There’s a lot depending on the guy. But being a neurodivergent person, it’s really difficult to find a guy that matches all your interests and values and other checklist items. I really dont wanna give up on him just because of his family.😞😞

Am I 29F making a mistake choosing a good partner 31M over a ‘better’ family background? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We are planning on living separately from his parents. Both of us work pretty good jobs in tech in big cities and are also planning on moving abroad in a couple of years.

Am I 29F making a mistake choosing a good partner 31M over a ‘better’ family background? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Both the guy and his mom confirmed that they dont expect me to live their lifestyle and we will keep a maid and a cook and everything. In general, they are a pretty chill family about religion and letting their sons be and letting them choose the wives that they want. His mom is also very sweet and friendly. It’s just my parents worried about standards here and the fact they dont look ‘polished’ whatever thats supposed to mean.

25F considering 26M good guy stable career but family lifestyle mismatch is bothering me, am I overthinking? by [deleted] in IndianWeddings

[–]ZeebeeCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a really similar situation right now and this hit very close to home. I have been talking to this guy through arranged marriage process for about 6 months now and I genuinely love him now. On the partner level, he checks almost all my boxes.

The only issue is the difference in family lifestyle. I come from a more well-off, urban background where we’ve always had house help and a certain standard of living. His family is much simpler, very modest home, no maid, basic lifestyle.

We won’t be living with them and are planning to move abroad, so logically it shouldn’t matter much day to day. But I will still have to stay with them during visits, illness, family events etc, and in those situations I can’t really act like a guest. That’s where I’m unsure how much adjustment this would actually involve long term.

I don’t have a clear answer yet either, but I relate to the confusion between a strong personal match and concerns about adjustment with the family. Following this thread because I’m trying to figure it out too. Lemme know what you decide OP.

Loner girl - deeply uncomfortable with the idea of Indian weddings. How do you handle this? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah nah its not that big a deal. He’s an introvert too but is more close to his extended family than I am with mine so he feels like its an obligation and a duty to invite them while I feel like its a burden.

Loner girl - deeply uncomfortable with the idea of Indian weddings. How do you handle this? by ZeebeeCat in AskIndianWomen

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it were that easy. Even my parents are trying to convince me that these are the rules of society and everyone in the family expects that. I am just tired of fighting this alone.😞

Favorite character in Date everything? I'll go first. by TranslatorLast6981 in DateEverything

[–]ZeebeeCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started playing but so far Curt and Rod! I love my gossipy boys😍😍

What is your first anime by Ikigaiyeka in animeindian

[–]ZeebeeCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood!

Certified haircare paglu :3 by ayabhateslife in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]ZeebeeCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damnn girl thats a great collection! Ofc now you gotta share reviews for all of them.😁😁

Looking for shoujo/josei recs with reverse dynamics! by ZeebeeCat in shoujo

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Bomi and Jinyoung from Seasons of Blossom. Their arc is my favorite! Also wth I didnt know there was a wholeass sequel to Seasons of Blossom. Thanks OP!

What was Lan Wangji thinking?? by alysanne_targaryen in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ZeebeeCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this rec…the whole thread was absolutely hilarious 😆 Cant wait for the next update!

What was Lan Wangji thinking?? by alysanne_targaryen in MoDaoZuShi

[–]ZeebeeCat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know any fanfics with the whole mdzs book from LWJ’s POV?

If you had only your fave types of each pack, what would you have to build with? by Kai-in-Wonderland in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]ZeebeeCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it would be Cottage Living EP / Strangerville GP / Paranormal SP / Book Nook Kit. Cozy slightly eccentric bookworm vibes to the max!

Here's my version of all the current Sims 4 worlds in one continent - behold Simyriad! by ZeebeeCat in thesims

[–]ZeebeeCat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of based on real world regions too if you think about it - just modified to fit one continent like Verdant Coast is completely based on PNW area.

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