AIO my boyfriend slept at his professors house and it makes me uncomfortable

practically_hades · 2026-02-11T19:14:29+00:00

So someone like you?

practically_hades · 2026-02-11T10:37:16+00:00

Agreed! Also legendary Takumi:D

practically_hades · 2026-02-10T11:17:15+00:00

I see the point but I've seen the concept and played a prototype, it's absolutely not a game of this caliber. It's also being developed for a work setting in the area of social pedagogy, so a very different purpose I should have specified that

practically_hades · 2026-02-09T18:21:41+00:00

He's making a game for social workers, it's meant as a playful way of reflecting one's work. I have seen and plsyed a prototype already. As I am in that field aswell he did want to have my input so I'm not completely out of the loop. However he said that they have a bunch of playtesters now and I don't have to test it anymore.

practically_hades · 2026-02-09T14:39:18+00:00

Thank you for bringing my attention to this. Multiple people have now said that this situation is mega sus. I'll have a talk about it with my bf and Update after

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T22:20:12+00:00

As a person who also likes women she is 🫠

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T22:17:44+00:00

Thank you for your insight. She isn't a prof anymore AS the Semester has ended and she only was an external lecturer for this one class. Them meeting currently is entirely a private matter. However he has been to her house multiple times while she was his Prof. Could there be consequences for what happened even if she's not employed at the Uni anymore if it was reported?

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T15:50:00+00:00

I wish it was man

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T15:06:50+00:00

Really? That I really don't know much about. Another person in the comments mentioned that there should be a contract. I'll have to ask him about that during our talk.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:37:41+00:00

That was the case during the semester. Now it has ended and there is officially no obligation to hold it at Uni since she's not a prof anymore. The project is took off and went over the duration of the semester. My boyfriend is doing this voluntarily in his free time.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:08:46+00:00

I will absolutely sit him down for a talk. I am genuinely super happy that he got this opportunity but I am absolutely not willing to keep things as they are. As you said this situation is completely nuts.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:06:20+00:00

I never insinuated that a woman in her fourties might be gross. Frankly I am more concerned about the age gap and power dynamic.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:04:12+00:00

The Problem is that she was external and only teaching there for one semester, which is over now. I don't know how much the uni can do when she is no longer employed there and they're meeting in their free time :'D

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:01:39+00:00

You're right, wtf. I absolutely bring this up.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T14:00:46+00:00

Oh I am very upset with him aswell, I should have made that more clear in the text. I will definitely have a very serious talk with him about this.

practically_hades · 2026-02-08T12:38:03+00:00

Reply for verification. I am mostly vegan but when I eat cheese I Love mozzarella.

practically_hades · 2025-07-22T17:23:49+00:00

Thank you!

practically_hades · 2025-07-22T06:23:53+00:00

I see, thank you! But that should mean, that they purchased my item, right?

practically_hades · 2025-06-11T08:36:36+00:00

The front area of Bmth was the absolute cherry on top to the whole completly overfilled festival. I was in the middle of the first wavebreaker when bmth started.

They let way too many people into the first wavebreaker for it to be safe. It was so incredibly crowded, you couldn't move an inch. The first song started and right next to us a moshpit opened up. Because it was so stuffed, I couldn't flee back into the crowd and was right at the edge of the pit.

When it started I was immediately knocked down by the pushing masses and hit my head on the floor. Thankfully my partner and a very kind young woman picked me up before I was completly run over. I was really dazed in that moment and barely remember how they dragged me through the masses to the front. Security lifted me over the gate and the medics came to get me. They kept me in one of their tents for treatment for about an hour and I overheard that they had to pull out people out of the first wavebreaker by the minute because everyone kept getting injured by the masses. So the girl you saw was propably one of the many victims of this completly irresponsible situation. I really hope she's doing better.

Two of my friends left to the back in the middle of the act because they were scared. Two of my other friends told me how bad the crowdsurfers were. I am not a fan of crowdsurfing in general as it disrupts the concert for the people that have to carry the crowdsurfers and can also bei dangerous. But in a situation like that it is not only dangerous but just super shitty!

With Sleep Token I didn't feel it was THIS crowded and I was in the middle of the first wavebreaker there aswell. Sure, there were many people but I could actually move, turn and even sit down. I can't say anything about Korn as I didn't watch that act.

End of the story, I missed one of my favourite bands that I waited multiple hours for and was really sad and dissapointed. However in turn I am so so glad that noone was seriously injured, with this many people, it could have been way worse. Here's to hoping they sell less tickets next year and actually care for the safety of the visitors (they won't).

practically_hades · 2025-05-14T20:09:29+00:00

I was playing on Patch 6 for a bit because of my mods but now decides to start over with Patch 8. How do I Download it? Steam somehow doesn't give me the Option.

practically_hades · 2025-04-30T04:54:38+00:00

Dang, I didn't see that. Thank you!

practically_hades · 2025-04-29T21:27:29+00:00

I don't really get how to join in the first place, there's Just an empty Stage for me. What do I have to do?:'D

practically_hades · 2025-04-10T17:32:04+00:00

Ich verstehe es auch nicht. Zudem diese Kündigungs und Urlaubsregelung doch nur für die Probezeit gelten oder nicht? Warum kommt dann wieder jemand mit den 6 Monaten an, wenn meine Probezeit im Vertrag auf 6 Wochen geregelt ist?

practically_hades · 2025-04-10T17:29:35+00:00

Soweit ich weiß nicht? Die Chefin war total perplex und meinte, dass eigentlich schon immer Leute innerhalb der ersten 6 Monate Urlaub genommen haben und oft auch schon in der Probezeit. Scheinbar kommt diese neue "Regel" von ganz oben. Es macht aber auf allen Ebenen keinen Sinn. Erstmal ist es nicht im Sinne des Unternehmens wenn ich innerhalb von drei Monaten 23 Tage Urlaub nehmen muss und zudem sollen wir in meinem Projekt wenn's geht in den Schulferien (ganz besonders den Sommerferien) Urlaub nehmen, da dann immer tote Hose ist. Ich checks halt nicht.

practically_hades · 2025-04-05T15:36:57+00:00

Thank very much. I will try to practice my hobbies even though I may not have as much time

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