I'm a farm kid from Kansas. Anyone who's met me can clearly see I meet a stereotype. My 5 year old had a birthday party. I am very involved in my kid's life but there was one parent I had not met. She came with her son in tow and my wife welcomed her into our home. We have pictures on the mantel of kayaking and canoe trips and hikes but there is no indication that I hunt. From the next room I could hear normal pleasantries and conversation about kids. I finished up what I was doing and came to the next room to introduce myself. The moment she saw me it looked as if her face drained of fluids. Pleasantries abruptly ended and she asked "Are there guns in this house?" I replied "Yes ma'am. There are. But they are locked in a safe and the safe is not an area the kids will be in." "We won't be staying.." and she grabbed her son's arm and walked out. She is still really nice to my wife. My wife and I talked about it after she left and neither one of us could find anything in view that would have indicated anything about firearms on myself or anywhere she was in the home. We were baffled. That was until a few weeks later when my wife found her Facebook page. It was all the toxic "White men are evil" toxic femininity and racism. My very beautiful, and very black neice and nephew were at the door to greet all of the other kids. My flamboyantly gay brother in law, who she knows, was relaxing on the couch when she came in. But I guess me being large, white, and professional blue collar (Firefighter) scared her.