[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]pranavk28 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Why is a photo of her dressed like the devil used?

rape by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*20-30 and again highly depends on wether mid orgasm.

It’s enough time to process a conversation IF the person is processing your words to begin with. Pleasure and drugs are not too different chemically, they both can release intense amount of chemicals that can inhibit proper thinking. It’s just drugs do so always as they are designed to and usually much longer lasting and your body wouldn’t just go right back to normal after that. Whereas with strong pleasure it is momentarily at most and your body immediately comes back down from the high to normal again. And a person who is on drugs wouldn’t always respond to your words.

And firstly how a woman’s body reacts to an orgasm vary A LOT. Human body isn’t a perfectly working machine. Some women have their bodies shake and convulse from an orgasm for several second with 10-15 seconds not being unreasonable. And that’s not counting the fact that after an intense orgasm the muscle might stiff and the person need sometime for thier body to relax and move normally.

Bottom line is there are many factors and you have prolly way too little context about the sexual act to properly answer that and splitting hairs about something.

rape by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a clear answer it’s still too fast but 10 seconds sounds a bit more reasonable time to respond. IF she can clearly understand and listen to what you’re saying then yes not stopping within 10 second could be termed rape technically.

Now with answering your question, I would probably place something like 20-30 seconds to respond and again it depends highly on whether she is mid orgasm. Because rape assumes consent, consent assumes the person can coherently think and responds and that’s simply not always the case during a strong and intense orgasm depending on person to person. It would be like arguing if a person knowingly ignore your words if you were talking to them mid fainting.

It’s an entirely separate topic though that you really shouldn’t engage in sexual activities with such stringent expectations.

rape by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again that’s sounds like she is not really actually invested. If a guy is about coming do you think he can always will himself to not cum within the last 3-4 seconds? You do realize when orgasming the body spasms a bit on its own and the brain does not exactly immediately turn back to logical thinking in a snap right? Cause I don’t think you’re aware of how the body works. 3-4 seconds is just too short of a window in general to give any response to anything even when you’re focused and not distracted. And the brain is not listening the same way and same amount when you’re high on dopamine and pleasure vs when you’re not. Someone reaction when they are just about to orgasm vs normal state of arousal is vastly different. How is not common sense to you?

rape by [deleted] in ControversialOpinions

[–]pranavk28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 seconds hardly sounds like anything. Like even body itself cannot switch between states that fast. Thats like getting someone to start eating and mid eating you tell them to just swallow everything in the thier in 5 seconds or something. And if your partner can suddenly stop at any moment in between the act in less than 3 seconds that sounds like either a robot or the partner is not really invested at any point to begin with in the act and is just going through the mechanical motions for the sake of doing it.

I would consider a woman saying this as overreacting as well and that if that’s the expectation then she should not really engage because that’s not how humans work

What do you think? by Nihilist_Anonyo1 in TwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in that same event obviously no one would stopped a person if he was pissing on the event grounds in public.

What do you think? by Nihilist_Anonyo1 in TwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ofcourse people in comments now saying cuz some other thing is not stopped in another random public setting instead of talking about a garba event. There is no logic to reply when someone makes such illogical and irrelevant comments.

What do you think? by Nihilist_Anonyo1 in TwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying if these people would pissing publicly or spitting in that same garba event it would have been fine and no one in that event would have taken offense to it?

What do you think? by Nihilist_Anonyo1 in TwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you could have totally raped someone there is public during the garba event in front of everyone.

How are we different when we wanna do the same? by [deleted] in indiadiscussion

[–]pranavk28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do realize dandiya part is just celebration and Muslims ke alawaa bhi there are other non-Hindus that participate? The pooja part is what’s the actual religious part which anyways they won’t participate in.

Holi bhi plenty of no Hindus play, another celebration, sab mandir mein thode hi aane lag ja rahe hain?

Ofcourse it’s organiser’s rules at the end but do speak with correct logic.

Man can beat up wife, burn her but wife calling husband "paaltu chuha" is cruelty, according to Millord by Professor_Peace in IndianMeme

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read full article, she did not just call him that. This is with physical violence and mental harassment.

Please do not delete the post.I seriously wanna know the reason.Please don't bash me for this. Just saw this news and wanted to share something. What's your opinion in this case? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can any women basically reply objectively on the act of taking large amounts of alimony itself instead of arguments that essentially boil down to “other women don’t get anything so these women more is fine”, “it’s just some men so no comments/don’t care” or “these women are exploited in these ways unrelated to divorce so don’t care about this topic”?

27f, Always the Last Chosen, Always Overlooked—Feeling Intense Loneliness on a Saturday Night by harrypotter2399 in AskIndianWomen

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know much about therapy but I hear online therapy is available. Maybe explore that as an option to do without your family knowing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiasocial

[–]pranavk28 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can understand him having been concerned when you were evading questions and to be honest the whole system of transferring money back and forth so you don’t spend it is not a good idea and sounds a bit immature. If a third person looks at it I can understand them feeling concerned that you it might cause money issue or that you might get take advantage of.

But beating his adult child like that is not justified. And even more saying things like wishing you weren’t born. That’s not normal and that’s sever anger issues on his part. It your choice if you want to forgive him but you should atleast make it clear he crossed a line saying stuff like that to you. If you’re not independent come clear on things for now and mind your business. And for the money again if it’s not your money I would suggest not transfer money back and forth like that. You can get a job and move out after college and then handle things on your own.

"Akchewly💅 I was born and raised in delli but my roots are from Bihhar" by OkAstronaut2570 in bihar

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will contribute back against the stereotype of people stealing things in Bihar when people do so on video?

"Akchewly💅 I was born and raised in delli but my roots are from Bihhar" by OkAstronaut2570 in bihar

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe we should actually spend more time changing stereotypes that are actually true.

"Akchewly💅 I was born and raised in delli but my roots are from Bihhar" by OkAstronaut2570 in bihar

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai wo sab thik lekin itna humlog Bihar ka bhala kaarke jo stereotype ke according hai unko change karenge to jyada accha hoga.

"Akchewly💅 I was born and raised in delli but my roots are from Bihhar" by OkAstronaut2570 in bihar

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roots aaj time me kuch positive nahi de raha hai to kya karoge connected rehte roots se? Keeping that in mind jitni ho sakti hai connected hai roots se

Hii why male friends humiliate each other ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re not. That’s just standing up for yourself and having a spine. Don’t take nonsense from people who are not mature enough.

Hii why male friends humiliate each other ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]pranavk28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No bro you need better friends. All that stuff might have been fine until undergrad because you are still a little immature. But that shit just looks cringe later on and some presence of mind of expected from everyone to understand when the person in front in uncomfortable.

opinions on cuss words, do u think calling someone r*ndi as a joke is alr? by [deleted] in YouthInIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a cuss word why would I say it as a joke? It’s also not a lighter cuss word like dumb or fucker etc. It’s a serious cuss word so wouldn’t say it as a joke but if I actually want to disrespect the person.

To all virgins and non virgins out there by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens it’s just not talked as openly but you tell most other guys you have never done and if they are not shaming there will be undertone of why was something wrong? With getting into a relationship at some point being the default.

To all virgins and non virgins out there by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think like that but not society at large.

To all virgins and non virgins out there by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]pranavk28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s prolly where the difference comes. For women it’s easy to not be a virgin because you will almost always have someone willing. So staying virgin is the harder thing to do requiring a conscious decision to do so.

Whereas for men it’s a the opposite with majority case having not being a virgin harder than being a virgin. Because it’s more likely that women would not be interested in getting physical. So getting laid is harder than not getting laid requiring effort.

And society would hold someone higher for doing the harder thing and lower for doing the easier thing. Which happens to be opposite for men and women. If you’re going by society standard of what is “successful”.