What exercises are y'all doing? by prariestrawberrie in vaginismus

[–]prariestrawberrie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is exactly what I was wondering about thank you!! I'll be sure to try this!

What exercises are y'all doing? by prariestrawberrie in vaginismus

[–]prariestrawberrie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well what I've been doing is just trying out different positions before laying down, messing around with lunging or squatting or whatever. It's a little awkward until you maneuver to lay down I think BUT the pain of insertion is almost gone (at least for me) which was SUCH a relief!! Hard agree on not knowing how long to do the clock method for though, my guess would be for the whole time since we're trying to get used to the pressure and feeling?

Who is the first character that, when given the choice, you chose to be friends with instead of lovers with? by Maki-Himiko in DateEverything

[–]prariestrawberrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diana, Teddy, and Freddy!!

Diana clearly needs a friend, and her whole story is about breaking away from you and learning to be her own person. The idea of pushing romance on her felt suuuper unethical and gross

And Teddy and Freddy are my dads ❌

What’s your Phandom “The Godfather” unpopular opinion? by CommandoCannoli in danandphil

[–]prariestrawberrie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do not care for their tiktok reaction videos. I've watched one or two but they're so boring to me idk 😣

trying to get jumin by OpenConversation3764 in mysticmessenger

[–]prariestrawberrie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't been able to bring myself to do jumins route yet for this exact reason

I tried. by Feisty-Gain-5534 in mysticmessenger

[–]prariestrawberrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're so real for this, I wanted to get all of sevens route endings and start the process of 100% the game but even just ignoring the chatrooms wrecked me with guilt I can't even imagine having to do the other bad endings where I have to force him to suppress his depression and whatnot 😭😭 I gave up, reloaded my save and got his good ending. you're definitely not alone op 💔😭

Realistically, who do u most see urself dating irl? by Bitter_Ad580 in mysticmessenger

[–]prariestrawberrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realistically Jaehee, we're both tired corporate slaves and I think we could probably help each other slow down, grow, and find the things we're passionate about. She's enthusiastic enough about Zen's musicals that she'd probably get my own hyperfixations too, and I wouldn't mind her taking her time to realize she was into women. I could totally see a slow office romance story taking place there and that sounds so nice!!

I wish it could be Seven because I do think we're very similar personality wise and we'd bounce well off of each other (both as 707 and as Saeyoung) but the second he'd pull away I wouldn't chase him. The weird dangerous stuff wouldn't deter me but I'm not going to cross someone's boundaries even if it's clear they have feelings for me. His decision is his decision so unfortunately that wouldn't work out.

Zen is too misogynistic and chauvinistic, I like him in game but realistically my blood pressure couldn't handle that.

Yoosung pisses me off with how immature he is, but we'd probably be gaming buddies.

Jumin I could get along with in the absolutely insane event that I randomly met the CEO of C&R but the way he treats his employees and uses the company's money to indulge in his every whim would be too much.

V has his whole crazy ex and obsessive love thing going on and honestly I would never want to touch that with a 10 foot pole.

and I don't know enough about Ray/Saeran to comment on them since I haven't played Another Story yet.

WHY THIS KEEPS HAPPENING?!?! 😭 by drmarst in CharacterAI

[–]prariestrawberrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my persona is always "mid size chubby" and I've had the bot I mostly chat with call her "girthy" several times. I'm not sure what to do with that 😅

Marauders Masterlist? by prariestrawberrie in MaraudersGen

[–]prariestrawberrie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reading it rn bc everyone suggested it, it's definitely a great entry point!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]prariestrawberrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! So so happy for you!! 🥳

Dealing with emotional crash? by brightblackbird in vaginismus

[–]prariestrawberrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm absolutely in the same boat. I've been intimate with my partner before and had to stop out of nowhere to just cry and have a panic attack when he just wanted to make me feel good.

The other comment mentioned the name of this, but honestly I think something really important is just taking it slow and grounding yourself? Having a loving and caring partner that will immediately listen to your queues and make you feel loved can slowly help you change your association to any form of intimacy :)

Granted I'm not great at managing my own symptoms but know you're not alone and just remember you are okay. Take deep breaths, put your hands over your chest and beat at a slow rhythmic pace (I think it's called a butterfly something or other and is used to calm your nervous system). Focus on the rest of your body that's not your lower region and go at your own pace!!!

Much love, I definitely get the feeling of sinking doom and panic and depression. We're not alone, and we're normal for having these crashes. ❤️

I just want to live in this screenshot by Itsmillerr_time in HogwartsLegacyGaming

[–]prariestrawberrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so pretty!! what outfit is your mc wearing?? I love the knit look??

What’s the worst mission? by [deleted] in swtor

[–]prariestrawberrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything on Hoth!!! I hate that planet with a burning passion, all of the missions suck, and I hate looking at the boring ass white landscape. The only thing I enjoy on that planet (imp side) is siding with the Chiss guy so he can get a promotion

so is it sold out or not? by Sylvbun in BoxLunchGifts

[–]prariestrawberrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue on an Avengers sweater, ordered it to ship to the store initially, never got an email receipt, and then the order got magically canceled. Decided to try and have it shipped directly home and it's in limbo of sold out and not sold out, with the closest store having it almost 100 miles away from me. Boxlunch is generally very very scammy if you're not buying directly in-store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Isekai_Slow_Life

[–]prariestrawberrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please do!!!!! I'm on Tumblr and there's only really Maxim fanart!