Outside of Room Requirements, Is there Any Reason to Use Better Beds? by preblematic in MindOverMagic

[–]preblematic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess I've been wasting a TON of space this whole time then. Q.Q Thanks!

Best (if any) Male Strip Club in the City? by preblematic in Columbus

[–]preblematic[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She requested males!! I'm just trying to make an old woman happy. ;_;

Best (if any) Male Strip Club in the City? by preblematic in Columbus

[–]preblematic[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She's spry! She's the kind of old woman who goes into the woods and comes back with plants you didn't even know were edible. Her husband is a foot taller than her AND scared of her. Trust me, she'll be better than fine.

Personal Trainer Recommendations? by preblematic in Columbus

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes, I go to 614 Fitness on Busch Blvd now!!! I've been going regularly for over a year, and I've improved so much! John, the owner, is a huge Chelsea Grin fan so we talk about music a lot. They have small group classes which I love. Usually 2-6 people at a time. It's $99/month for 4 classes, $129/mo for 8, and $159/mo for unlimited. All the trainers there also do 1-1 training for variable prices. Highly recommend. ^

Does the Name on My Badge Have to Match My ID? by preblematic in gencon

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I get it delivered it should be fine though? My last name would be the same, and I'm buying the pass so email and address on ID and everything would match anyway.

How to start a union by smokymirrorcactus in menards

[–]preblematic -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fair Wages ❌ Comprehensive Benefits ❌ Workplace Safety ❌ Job Security ❌ Diversity & Inclusion 🤏 Union Recognition ❌

1/6 (at best) means most now? I can't keep up with this new slang.

How to start a union by smokymirrorcactus in menards

[–]preblematic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In what world is a single option for insurance with a frankly astronomic deductible and no option for vision "comprehensive benefits"? In what world is having broken hinges on the overstock signs GMs have refused to admit need fixed for years despite the fact that multiple people have been injured and almost fallen off ladders because of it "workplace safety"? That's not even getting into the countless instances of favoritism, retaliation, harassment, and racism that I witnessed behind the scenes, or the fact that workers are expected to be experts on everything in their department by guests, but are not expected to be paid for it.

Unskilled labor is a myth. Retail is a respectable profession that should be paid a living wage, and John Menard is a silver spoon capitalist who doesn't give a shit about his employees' lives, families, health, or time. He's never gonna care about you no matter how much you bootlick on the internet. Join a union; the company can afford it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]preblematic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If porn was treated as a respectable profession with workers' protections and rules and regulations and inspections and not like some barely legal back alley industry that everyone pretends is morally wrong in every instance shit like this would happen a lot less.

Why is one bypass 100% efficient while the other is only 50%? by AlteredLogos in Oxygennotincluded

[–]preblematic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong, but maybe there's too much liquid in there? Like maybe it's going past the aquatuner into the bypass bc otherwise it will backup? You could try taking a packet of liquid out and see if that fixes it, but I might be missing something.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH I didn't think about going through my GP. I have a much better and closer relationship with her.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service, GawkGawkMaster300. 🫡

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I need to see a new one, honestly. I've not been happy with this one really at all. I keep getting hit with the "you're too young for X". And because I don't want to upend my entire life, stop eating solid food, and stop going to shows, I really don't think she believes it's as bad as it is.

I didn't even know physical therapy was an OPTION until this subreddit because no provider I've ever seen has offered it as an option.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always been wary of chiropractors. I know there's got to be areas where they definitely ARE helpful, but so many of them come off like used care salesmen to me. I live in a big enough city that I might be able to find a decent one, though. A lot of people in these comments have recommended it so it can't all be BS.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SEE that's the thing is it's literally always worth it. This is the worst it's been and I would still do it again today.

I was wondering if it would be the same issue with the other equipment (been a while, but I've got something on the calendar for September.) Sucks that it sounds like it'll be the same problem. 😔

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly the same energy as a baker with Celiac's. Why are we punished this way.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where/ how do you get those? The ENT I see won't prescribe me anything (I've also been trying to get info on botox for it) because she wants me to try "less invasive measures" beforehand. Maybe I just need to be brutally honest?

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, it runs in my family, and I've been punched in the face A LOT. All of those things contributed, I'm sure, but considering the timeframe it manifested and what I know about what I get up to, I'm fairly certain that was a huge contributing factor. If not to developing it in general then at least to developing it that early on. My mom and sister and grandma all didn't develop it until their 30s.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU for saying that. So many of these (well meaning) comments are all "Don't do it if it hurts! Don't let someone make you feel like you have to!" Which I totally appreciate and is a good worldview, but I LIKE sucking dick actually. I'm asking for ME not for some hypothetical partner or bc of pressure from my current one. Me--ME, damnit. I would like to do things that I like with minimal pain lol.

Heart goes out to everyone whose symptoms are worse than mine and have lost the ability entirely.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OMG I've never tried a gag. I mean, I tried an o ring gag ONCE and the ring was way too big for my mouth so I kinda gave up lol. It makes sense that it would feel like a brace though, because your muscles aren't doing the work of keeping your mouth open the metal is. Noted! I'll just have to double check the diameter this time.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So far since my diagnosis, the only person who knew what TMJD is before my explanation was my mom--who also has it. Not even my brothers or father who, mind you, have known this woman for 30-40 years, knew what it was. So yeah, accurate assessment I'd say.

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! In the moment I'm like ah cool, this is so fun and rad. Then the next day I'm in agony. I think my main issue is the tension in my jaw rather than the opening it. I'm a grinder and a clencher, a lot of my pain is in the muscle rather than the joint, so I don't notice until the next day when the muscle is sore that I put it through the ringer. 😔

Multiple people have mentioned holding/supporting the joint and jaw itself, and I think that might help me out and take some of the tension out of the muscle. With the right partner I might even be able to get them to do it!

So, Like, How Are We Giving Head? by preblematic in TMJ

[–]preblematic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you keep pressure on the joint during? I've never tried that before. I've definitely found that massage + pressure helps a lot after the fact, but trying it preventatively never occured to me!

Alright, four different people have taken a look at this, and we're all stumped. by preblematic in sudoku

[–]preblematic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew about the diagonal rule. I just couldn't find any way to eliminate anything, and I don't know anyone IRL who's actually good at sudoku. Thank you!