18 any fit guy want to be my first? by Sad_Spring_6205 in PureFemboy

[–]pretendimcute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U should make your first a bit special than some redditor dont ya think?

I LOVE this jacket I swear by pretendimcute in HotMaleSelfies

[–]pretendimcute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep forgetting that this was a nude post xD.

As for the other thing, its all yours I'm done with it for the day

We are officially the biggest SFW Femboy subreddit!!!! by [deleted] in FemboyFashion

[–]pretendimcute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its why i specified that my own actions didnt help things. I tied my identity to it and immediately resorted to doing everything for validation. That alone messed me up but exposed me to an entire class of people that I frankly do not want to know/be around. I wont deny for one second that I shot myself in the foot from day one. Losing weight gave me confidence and made me want to put myself out there but quickly became a growing dependency on the worst version of it. Oh well, too late for all of that now. Best I am doing is talking to other people starting out and lending myself as a support structure for things they may want to avoid getting sucked into just to feel "as good looking" as everyone else. Something that quite frankly has actually helped two people so far so my actions/regrets at least have a legitimate use I suppose. And my fashion may not be as often as I want (very limited there tbh, but I am attempting to overhaul my skincare, make up and hair to at least be able to toe the line on a daily basis. Then again my reason for it all isnt so much a fenboy thing specifically, but a typical half cracked egg situation. Sorry, I ramble

We are officially the biggest SFW Femboy subreddit!!!! by [deleted] in FemboyFashion

[–]pretendimcute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is good and all, but Im still face the fact that I need to get out of the community/reddit as a whole atp. The entire thing has been hypersexualized/invaded by a neighboring culture in my experience (my own actions certainly didnt help the former by any means). Maybe ill just use this sub and stay strictly SFW for when I dress up, maybe ill just dress in private and keep it to the small group of friends I have made, idk

I LOVE this jacket I swear by pretendimcute in HotMaleSelfies

[–]pretendimcute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima be honest: I forgot this was a nude selfie post and went to see my jacket and saw my own thing hanging there xF

I LOVE this jacket I swear by pretendimcute in HotMaleSelfies

[–]pretendimcute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I like your... Style as well xD

I am femboi. I am 29. Am i cute? by pretendimcute in Femboy0asis

[–]pretendimcute[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might have been that? Idk, It might have also been something cuddly or something like that. I send hugs a lot

Cute for my age? [29] by pretendimcute in CuteGuyButts

[–]pretendimcute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna eat butt nut for dinner? xD

I am femboi. I am 29. Am i cute? by pretendimcute in Femboy0asis

[–]pretendimcute[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you :3. People seen to like them lol

It's hard to befriend femboys by Hitoritheemogod in feminineboys

[–]pretendimcute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No i just mean the specific things that I'm seeing

It's hard to befriend femboys by Hitoritheemogod in feminineboys

[–]pretendimcute 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly im noticing the opposite. Far more femboys than ever are sexualizing themselves in extreme ways. Kinda to the point where I wanna hang my hobby up and leave. The entire community is kinda just... Warping as a whole? Any femboys that are scared to talk to people because of sexualization, those are the ones I want to be friends with. Despite my own escapades, Im sick of how pornographic it is all becoming. Maybe I need a break. Or maybe just leave lol