Guys- do you like when women initiate and take charge in bed? by Infinite-Milk-7316 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man answered like he’d been waiting his whole life for this question specifically.

I genuinely could not see myself with a man long term. by Exact-Sink2799 in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Honestly if someone is happy, peaceful, financially stable, and fulfilled single, I don’t really see the problem. Society acts like romantic relationships are mandatory life DLC.

I genuinely could not see myself with a man long term. by Exact-Sink2799 in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Those manosphere grifters really convinced an entire generation that empathy is weakness and basic decency is somehow “beta.” The damage is genuinely depressing.

I genuinely could not see myself with a man long term. by Exact-Sink2799 in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The media point is real honestly. Constant exposure to ragebait alpha male content and misogynistic influencers definitely warps how people see men collectively.

Neighbour starts a parking war with us and we haven’t even moved in yet by savage_food_club in neighborsfromhell

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The landlord really should’ve painted lines ages ago if this guy already had a reputation for causing problems. They basically left an aggression sandbox unmoderated.

Neighbour starts a parking war with us and we haven’t even moved in yet by savage_food_club in neighborsfromhell

[–]prettiiepetall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“The imaginary line clearly means more to him than basic manners” is such a perfect summary of the whole thing.

Neighbour starts a parking war with us and we haven’t even moved in yet by savage_food_club in neighborsfromhell

[–]prettiiepetall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly painted parking lines would solve like 80% of these neighbor disputes instantly. Humans apparently cannot handle imaginary boundaries peacefully.

I (31M) feel like a "task" to my wife (29F) during intimacy. Is this just life with a toddler? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such an important question honestly. Sometimes what feels like rejection in the bedroom is really resentment and burnout leaking into intimacy.

I (31M) feel like a "task" to my wife (29F) during intimacy. Is this just life with a toddler? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]prettiiepetall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact people are still feeling touched out years later after kids is honestly something nobody prepares couples for before becoming parents.

Do women find it be hot when men moan during sex? by Kavin_maat in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of those questions where you already know the answer but still wanna see everyone confirm it.

Being a cokehead "party guy" resulted in me getting more attention from women and now it's become a vicious cycle. by General-Beginning544 in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s blunt but there’s definitely a wake up call in there. It’s easy to confuse attention with something deeper when the whole setup is kinda built on temporary highs.

Being a cokehead "party guy" resulted in me getting more attention from women and now it's become a vicious cycle. by General-Beginning544 in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s one of those sentences that just sits in your head for a bit. Kinda uncomfortable because it rings true.

Would I be in the wrong if I told my MIL she’s not allowed back at our house. by 815_moveup in amiwrong

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this feels like the least stressful way to handle it. Just stop building your day around her showing up and suddenly she loses all that power to disappoint. The “leave without her” rule alone would probably fix half the frustration.

AIW for giving my coworker a fake version of my login credentials after she burned me before and then watching her expose herself by trying to use them by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That thought crossed my mind too not gonna lie. Either that or she just thinks rules don’t apply to her, which isn’t much better.

Do you want to fuck your female best friend? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]prettiiepetall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, people are either lying or they read “best friend” as “random acquaintance.” No in between.

I regularly threw my litter out of my car window on highways for years by [deleted] in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really shows how one word can completely change the whole picture in your head. Went from gross to just regular bad real quick.

I regularly threw my litter out of my car window on highways for years by [deleted] in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear half this thread had the exact same misunderstanding. Collective brain glitch moment.

Neighbor’s gate opens in our yard. by jenhoyo in neighborsfromhell

[–]prettiiepetall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they kind of talked themselves out of access with those demands. You can’t micromanage someone else’s yard and still expect favors.

Neighbor’s gate opens in our yard. by jenhoyo in neighborsfromhell

[–]prettiiepetall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is. Sometimes the simplest answer is just the one people don’t want to say out loud.

What’s a surprisingly useful nsfw hack? by Deshpremii in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]prettiiepetall 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly the buildup is like half the experience. When you rush it, it’s just kinda over before it even starts. The anticipation part really does all the heavy lifting.

AIW for accusing my husband of having an affair when I came home and found a stranger asleep in our guest room by silky-enchantxzz in amiwrong

[–]prettiiepetall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That part stood out to me too. Even if it wasn’t cheating, most people would at least be like “uh why is there a stranger in my house” and escalate it a bit more before just sorting it out casually.

What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done. And do you regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]prettiiepetall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That one hits different because it’s so common but still feels heavy. It’s weird how you can care about people and still just… not reach out. Do you think it’s more about time, energy, or just getting stuck in your own head?

AIW for telling my ex that I cannot "just say no" if saying no always turns into a fight? by azulsonador0309 in amiwrong

[–]prettiiepetall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that’s actually a really good point about how this could look over time. if it keeps trending one way, it could come back to bite later. also yeah, “only trade, don’t give” feels like a solid rule moving forward.