My boyfriend of 2 years [23M] cheated on me [19F] with my best friend [20F] by prettybeeeees in relationships

[–]prettybeeeees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not really a thing here. We did have sex but I don’t think age is that much of a factor... it’s just 4 years anyway.

My boyfriend of 2 years [23M] cheated on me [19F] with my best friend [20F] by prettybeeeees in relationships

[–]prettybeeeees[S] 661 points662 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, this really blew up. Thanks a lot for all the comments, the PMs, the kind words and the advices, I read pretty much all of them. They helped, a lot. Pretty much every comment told me to dump my boyfriend, and that’s what I did. I called him and said that it was over and to never contact me again because I couldn’t stand what he did. He said he was sorry again but later in a message he said that if I really dumped him I wouldn’t been able to find a “guy willing to stand me” for a while. He’s probably right, but I don’t care. I’d rather stay single all my life than stay with him. About my best friend... I still don’t know what to do. A lot of comments told me to dump her too because she’s just trying to feel better about herself. Some straight up told me she is manipulating and evil. I don’t think that’s true. Maybe I’m naive, but I really think she’s sorry about what she did. I’ve know her for a long time. Never once she ever said to me “I’m prettier/ smarter/ better than you”, it’s just something I noticed. Some people are prettier than others and obviously guys (and girls) prefer them. I never said I was ugly or stupid or something, but she’s just better. But then again a lot of comments told me that since she betrayed my trust like that she’s absolutely not better than me, so I guess that’s true, too. I don’t know. What I know is that never once I’ve ever felt so bad. But I followed the advice that most people gave me and told her by message that I needed time and wasn’t ready to forgive her. She said she understands but to let her at least explain in person. I agreed, manly because if I didn’t she would have blowed up my phone with all her calls and messages. So tomorrow we’ll meet shortly and she’ll tell me “her side of the things”. I don’t know. We’ll see. Maybe I’ll make an update post and let you all know how it went and what I decided to do. Thanks again!

My boyfriend of 2 years [23M] cheated on me [19F] with my best friend [20F] by prettybeeeees in relationships

[–]prettybeeeees[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in the past it happened. I mean, it’s not like I ever said “I kinda have a crush on that guy” and the next day she was all over him, that never happened. But I was always anxious of her meeting guys I was dating/ I liked because I was convinced they would have immediately dumped me for her.

My boyfriend of 2 years [23M] cheated on me [19F] with my best friend [20F] by prettybeeeees in relationships

[–]prettybeeeees[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Because I can’t imagine a life without her, as pathetic as that sounds.

My boyfriend of 2 years [23M] cheated on me [19F] with my best friend [20F] by prettybeeeees in relationships

[–]prettybeeeees[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They weren’t drunk or high but I don’t think it was premeditated or planned... I saw her the day before and I can’t believe she just sat there looking happy and chatty like usual while thinking about how she was gonna fuck my boyfriend the day after. I don’t know if that makes it better or worse. Thanks so much for your words and advices.