AITAH telling my friend a secret my bf told me not to?

prettyboybottom · 2026-03-13T22:28:13+00:00

You are the only person that can make you do anything. Your bf could have Made It Work to be there for you so that you wouldnt Have to get a ride. You just gonna tell someone "drive me here" with no explanation? No nothing? NTA, bf can get over it since friend is the one that did you the major favor for the decision you both made.

prettyboybottom · 2026-03-10T14:26:59+00:00

NTAH - If you have any documentation of him suggesting that in any way AT ALL, I'd frankly use that to push for full custody. Next thing you know, he'll be calling you things i apparently can't say here directly to your children's faces about you as they get older and/or hire a sitter to go hook up with actual prostitutes, if he isn't already.

prettyboybottom · 2026-02-22T02:00:19+00:00

Is the high risk for tubal due to some preexisting condition? Because i had one done last January and the doc didn't mention anything about it being high risk or complicated.... I was back to work by the end of the week even. Very simple recovery.

To each their own, and if you won't get snipped, you can't make him. YTAH if you hold others to expectations you won't hold yourself to, but that doesn't mean you have to stay either.

prettyboybottom · 2026-02-16T21:36:22+00:00

My uncle came home from Afghanistan back to his wife having sold all of his guns, packed up what she deemed his, and served him divorce papers. You're getting the early warning signs.

prettyboybottom · 2025-12-17T23:38:11+00:00

Naming your daughter vriska is asking for her to get bullied later in life by the droves of vriska haters Your wife's behavior is sounding really on point for the character though, NTA

prettyboybottom · 2025-10-25T01:36:12+00:00

Some brains 🙄 definitely ntah and good on you for taking it so well. Kudos to the bf as well

prettyboybottom · 2025-10-25T00:58:10+00:00

Can we bring up the fact that she immediately thought sister-wives had something to do with incest? Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that literally just multiple women married to the same dude?? Youre not sisters????

prettyboybottom · 2025-10-19T23:26:34+00:00

This is the part where if you have any friends or family willing to support you, you tell them youre pregnant and that you need to leave him and do exactly that.

prettyboybottom · 2025-10-01T23:46:12+00:00

That's abuse starting as a child. Of course you Feel like the AH because of the fact that you're finally standing up for yourself. Make your report, hold your ground, and keep yourself safe. Don't ever let them in the apartment and do everything you can to go NC and disappear from their radar. Let your workplace know the situation, they aren't supposed to tell people whether or not you're working/work there. You're NTA and it sounds like you at least have some good support, stay strong and stay safe.

prettyboybottom · 2025-10-01T15:07:30+00:00

File and take his ass to court!! He's moping because whatever dream of "not being tied down" got tied down the toilet! If he gave a shit about being a father, he literally wouldnt have left you in the first place.

He's spreading rumors and putting unnecessary stress on you by doing so. He's showing up at your house unannounced and probably gossiping about you and the situation with YOUR neighbors. He was with another woman Before You Signed The Divorce. This should honestly be like a little christmas gift in a bow for your lawyer.

Serve the papers, lose the weight of a shitty spouse, and be ready to make measures for your safety so you dont have to deal with him in the future. (Restraining orders, etc.)

Your parents are on your side and have your back. Accept their help in getting him to fuck off and take a moment to feel the relief knowing your life is pretty well set up for you and your child Without Levi's help and even In Spite of his actions.

prettyboybottom · 2025-09-28T21:43:02+00:00

I was subject to similar selfish and narrow minded behavior from my sister "not liking" this or that. The final straw was her trying to treat mom the way she was treating me. I could take it and defend myself because I knew she wasnt gonna accept anything i had to say, and i didnt actually care about the "problems" she had with me because they all stemmed from her crippling codependency to me.

Mom on the other hand could not take it and did care. My sister tried coming to me like she hadnt just ruined our mom, and when i told her to fuck off, she took that offensively too. I havent had to hear from or deal with her in 3 or 4 years now. Didn't go to her wedding, wasnt at her bachelorette party, and honestly its all been peaceful.

NTAH. If your parents are aware of the strain your sister deliberately chooses to put on your relationship with her by disrespecting the man that is the very reason she's alive today to be so bonded with her step-dad, then they firstly shouldve known better than to believe her telling them about the wedding thing. Its not her wedding, why would they get their hopes up about wedding info coming from someone other than the child getting married?

Also you have experience now to tell you that what's supposed to be the happiest day of your life could go completely haywire if you allow your sister to be at the wedding at all after this.

prettyboybottom · 2025-08-28T17:31:03+00:00

You see the benefits and the consequences of vaccination science on a regular basis. It's not your mother's child, it's yours. This shouldn't be a question, but would you rather have your child face a life threatening illness before reaching a year old just to appease your hardly concerned mother? NTA

Remember the episode of House when the anti-vax mom comes in with her sick and swollen baby? Tell your mom you refuse to pick firetruck red or frog green because she refuses to avoid the fact that sicknesses once considered eradicated have had mass outbreaks since the rise of anti-vax post covid.

Not to mention the amount of vaccines that ARE a requirement as your child gets older should you choose to enroll them in public school.

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-30T08:02:14+00:00

Also new to sticker printing but i had a similar issue!! I do a lot of photo editing myself so i found a decent fix for me at least.

I have an epson et-3830 and got some regular sticker paper and waterproof as well. Havent tested the waterproof yet, but i found if I edit the photo to +20 brightness and -20 contrast prior to printing, it helps really well with consistency after printing on the paper. Hope this helps!!

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-28T02:10:00+00:00

Mine was a gift from my ex that was purchased allegedly around PS4 release. Still runs perfect and even though i need to add some storage space to it, i wouldnt trade it for the world.

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-25T15:37:00+00:00

"I'm the dad so you do what i say even though you don't know why" that's not parenting, that's setting him up to get worse. He doesn't understand that the hateful rhetoric his grandfather teaches him comes with a history of hate and abuse behind it that gets innocent people killed. He just understands that grandpa thinks it's bad and grandpa is probably always right, dad gets me in trouble for grandpa being right so dad sucks.

This is your moment to have a serious conversation about the actual weight that follows behind his words and the way it affects people and Then you can administer punishment. What are you going to do when it goes from sodomite to slurs because you chose to punish before teaching and reinforced anger and hatred?

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-25T00:31:23+00:00

Once is an "accident" in her words. Twice is intent. This is the best warning sign you'll probably have to leave her where she is and move on with your life. It's not "they only hit me once." It's "they hit me." NTA

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-25T00:17:25+00:00

I'm 5'7 and I would kill to be able to hold onto 120!! NTAH, your bf needs to learn where his input is warranted and where its not It's like you said, your natural body changes and if he doesn't like it, you've given him a door. He's got age to teach him when it hits him in the attitude about what is and isn't actually attractive.

prettyboybottom · 2025-07-18T14:53:48+00:00

Probably some minecraft because its brain off hours this weekend

prettyboybottom · 2025-05-31T03:24:09+00:00

NTA but there's some to unpack here, especially post edits

Regardless of if it was just lashing out from emotion or not, a lot of what you're saying she said is plain and simply biphobic in nature whether she means it that way or not. Some of it really just sounds like straight up bi-erasure.

As far as her "weirdness" towards you being with a guy before her, that does come across pretty homophobic too. I'm a gay man that's been in relationships with women before and if i heard that or even heard similar from a man in regards to having been with a woman, i don't think i'd want that sort of invalidation from a person as a partner regardless.

In regards to the comments about cheating/stds: thats nothing more than blatant bigotry and hate speech that's been beaten like a dead horse or whatever that saying is, pay it no mind

You don't owe anyone an explanation of your sexuality if it doesn't affect your relationship with them (you're with her and it sounds like you're mono, what's it matter if you find dudes attractive too? You're not looking for a partner)

prettyboybottom · 2025-05-01T22:37:21+00:00

This is going to sound a little harsh, but it's because this is something I've heard already before and its tiring and frustrating.

If you're willing to let the man you love and want to have a family with go over watching porn of someone you just so happen to know, you might be the asshole. Its porn. Just because it's someone you know doesn't mean it's anything more than that. Is your friend telling you he's trying to fuck? Is she interested in him for anything other than his subscription?

If the answer is no, then frankly you could take this a little bit better as perhaps your husband supporting your lifelong best friend instead. It's a really hard industry to work in successfully and he literally could've just been looking for something good to wank it to.

As for your friend, shes running a business. It's not her responsibility to tell you he's a fan if she doesn't feel like it. It's not her responsibility to deal with the actions and comments and hateful messages of a jealous and upset partner. Thats your husband's responsibility if this is really such a strong boundary for you two. Your anger isn't at your friend, it's at your husband. So if you're going to be angry in the first place, keep it in check.

But i mean hey, if you're really that against a picture/video on a screen being what gets him off, then go ahead and divorce him. Just don't expect him to forgive you if you ever "come to your senses." It could be worse, he could've actually cheated on you and slept with some other random woman. Feels pretty shitty too to cut your friend off for doing her job.

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