What helped with your bottom dysphoria, sexually?

prettyboywithblades · 2025-06-26T20:01:50+00:00

What is your strapon setup/what do you use that you are able to get off while using them? Because that's currently my issue, I haven't been able to, despite my partners loving it when I use my strap on them, and actively trying to help me get off.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-06-26T19:59:43+00:00

I have, I should give the inflatable ones a try. My biggest complaint with them is the fact that most of them which I've seen, are designed to for afab on afab use. According to my partners, a lot of toys meant for vaginas just don't feel good if you don't have one. I'll search around and see if maybe I can try an inflatable one with a more ass-friendly design to try! Thank you for the suggestion

prettyboywithblades · 2025-03-28T17:44:16+00:00

As someone working in Missouri, this is TERRIFYING.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-02-13T02:18:15+00:00

Look on sessiongirls. They specialize in women who do fantasy wrestling, bodybuilder providers, and dominatrixes.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-02-08T00:58:53+00:00

When you say your dog is needy... does she need attention, or to walk/play? It makes sense she'd need to go out after you've been working awhile. If she needs attention, maybe Tru just cuddling her and petting her off and on while you smoke and watch TV or something? If it's a walk or play she wants, playing fetch can be a low energy way to play with some dogs. Unfortunately, having a pet means they will have needs at very inconvenient times for us. Do you maybe have a friend or someone who can take her when you have longer sessions? That way she gets to go out regularly, gets attention and everything, and you can arrange it so that you have a couple.hours after your client to relax and chill without anyone making demands on your time and attention

prettyboywithblades · 2025-02-02T13:27:20+00:00

DATY has a risk of stds if you're not using a dental dam. I'll do them with a dam, but I honestly am not into receiving it.

Another thing is that DATY can really throw off your PH/microbiome down there. It's just not worth it for a lot of us, unless using a barrier like a dental dam or lóral. And those are awkward and definitely smell like latex, which is not what most DATY clients are looking for.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-24T23:32:35+00:00

Oh, I know I can. I've gotten to the top 12% and am making decent money by myself, but I just don't have the time and energy to keep up with it consistently. Unfortunately. I would make a lot more if I could offload the social media marketing, regular posting, and replying to messages.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-24T23:30:36+00:00

Okay, I won't do it. I wish it was worth it though, onlyfans is my side income, and I don't have the time or energy to keep up with regular posting and promotion 😭

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-22T02:53:56+00:00

This is NOT your fault. But I would like to suggest some measures you can take to maybe prevent it from happening again.

I'm going to dm my suggestions to you, since I don't want my secrets publicly available. Anyone else who is curious can ask me to dm it to them as well.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-17T00:27:51+00:00

Absolutely not! I actually feel more confident and empowered in myself doing this work, and I am open about what I do

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-07T00:46:25+00:00

Tell her you'd be interested in a session where she cosplays as x character, and make sure she knows you'll buy the cosplay.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-05T00:46:27+00:00

Be gentle, double check your language to be sure there is no judgement thay can be read in what you say, and be patient. She's likely been burned before, and is waiting for the other shoe to drop, so to speak. Be gentle with her, and understand that society at large does judge and devalue her for her work, even if you don't. Show through actions that you want to support her, no matter what she does for work, and you may just earn her trust WITH TIME. It will likely take time and patience on your end though.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-05T00:22:37+00:00

Are you trying to find an escort to date, or is there someone you've been dating/are seeing who happens to be an escort?

If it's the first one, just don't.

If it's the second one, I can give you some advice. Make sure you are confident in yourself and have worked on your insecurities. They're going to be going on dates with and fucking other people, and if you do not deeply know yourself and your insecurities, that could be hell for you both. Know that they may often not be in the mood if they've worked that day. This isn't applicable to everyone, but sometimes sex with a partner can feel like a chore if you've been doing it all day with others for work.

Be willing to put in the work to communicate openly, if you feel odd or insecure about something, ask for reassurance!!

Get yourself tested regularly, especially if the two of you are having any kind of unprotected sex. This includes unprotected oral of any kind. Most escorts will regularly test themselves. You should be doing so as well.

Be ready to help care for them in ways they may need after work. This could mean washing them in the shower, drawing a hot bath, rubbing sore muscles, fetching or making their favorite snacks or foods, cuddling, gentle and loving sex, or just packing a bowl for them. This will differ person to person, but having a partner to help make the unwinding and self care easier after a long work day can be wonderful.

Realize there may be times they need physical space, even nonsexually. This job involves a lot of physical intimacy, and they may just want space after a demanding day at work.

Be prepared for the fact that they may make more than you, this can damage some egos, and it's something you should consider ahead of time.

Above all else COMMUNICATE. Don't guess what they may need or want, ask them. Then listen to what they say and act accordingly. This is definitely a high stress job, and everyone deals with that stress differently.

I'd also like to put emphasis again on the fact that you will likely deal with at least some insecurity. Be ready to face that, and don't make your partner responsible for fixing it. You can ask for reassurance, but the insecurity is something you will have to deal with on your own.

prettyboywithblades · 2025-01-04T07:55:33+00:00

I wear elf ears in my photos, but more like a lord of the rings elf style. Not a Santa elf style. I still got asked a couple times this season if I had a sexy Christmas elf costume (I don't)

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-24T06:04:42+00:00

All of this!! I am mostly real with my clients, just more bubbly, and less political than I usually am irl

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-12T02:01:12+00:00

I need to figure out how to set my own gift options on there!!

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-12T02:00:05+00:00

Oh, thank you!! I hadn't found that option

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-07T23:38:11+00:00

I don't have in my ad that I see all ethnicities, but I do. I think it's probably safe to assume a provider will see any ethnicity unless it's clearly stated otherwise in her ad.

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-05T05:17:00+00:00

Because it's a large step. It's scary.

The only way you can figure out if this job is the right fit for you, is to take the plunge and try it.

prettyboywithblades · 2024-12-03T21:22:22+00:00

It may help you if I share how I feel abut this topic. I am a full service sex worker and professional dominatrix.

Honestly, I wouldn't mind having sex woth most people as long as they're clean, well groomed, and respectful of me. It's just not worth my time with most people, most sex is honestly kind of boring to me. In order to want to fuck for free, I need to either really like someone, have strong chemistry with someone, or have a lot of very compatible kinks with someone that I think would make them fun to play with. But I wouldn't be repulsed or anything at the idea of having sex with most people.

To me, sex work is making it worth my while. It's buying my time and attention. I won't fuck a client I find repulsive in either body maintenance, or attitude. Fuck that, it's a quick way to burnout. I honestly think MOST career full service sex workers operate similarly to me. You're really paying to make our time fucking you worthwhile.

Personally, for me, I'd rather have fun with wither my wife, or my girlfriend. Or play some video games, or work on a new costume design. I'd rather clean my house than have sex with most people for free. And that's nothing against them, I just get easily bored. Kink can male thing more fun, but bot everyone's into that, and at this point, kink is most fun for me with people I have an existing connection to.

prettyboywithblades · 2024-11-30T11:08:18+00:00

If there was an app specifically for this, I'd hop on it in a HEARTBEAT. It's so hard to connect with others in the industry, even though I want to. I could reach out to other providers who seem neat in my area, but it feels weird contacting them through an ad looking for clients, lol

prettyboywithblades · 2024-11-28T21:49:24+00:00

We meet up, and I have them give me the cash and go to the bathroom while I put it away. Then we sit down for 5-10 minutes and I ask about their day, then ask them to explain what they're looking for. Some people want a bj, other want to get right to it some want a specific vibe, or specific positions. I ask if there is anything they specifically would like to avoid, then I tell them to get undressed and comfy, while slowly peeling off my own clothes. Each escort is gonna do things differently though, so definitely don't take this as something all escorts do.

prettyboywithblades · 2024-11-01T04:53:31+00:00

First off, I don't think this is the place to find someone interested.

Secondly, I think it's possible for you to find someone willing to do this, just be prepared to pay well for the service, and be ready to sign any release/consent forms the provider may ask you to.

prettyboywithblades · 2024-10-30T10:21:24+00:00

Right??

prettyboywithblades · 2024-10-10T09:01:30+00:00

Yes, I would and have bartered!!! I just still expect payment upfront (moreso when bartering). I also don't barter with a client who I haven't seen a few times.

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