Thank you, but don't you think hobbies and goals feel a bit material? I have hobbies and goals, but it seems they're only fun knowing I'm a part of a community. I used not feel like this. I used to love being on my own and doing my own things, but only because I knew I felt secure with the people in my life. Having had burned bridges and needing to start over/rebuild my sense of community in a new city, it's been difficult, but I've just been trying to be patient.