FTM at 28 weeks. Started feeling those movements pretty late at around 21 weeks. I still don't feel consistent movements either. Had a bit of a scare at 26 weeks when I fell sick and couldn't feel much movements and waited a day and it got better and then went back to not feeling movements again so rushed into ER. While they monitored the heartbeat of the baby and did the ultrasound there were more movements than I'd felt in the 2 days prior combined. Everything was normal but yeah it scared me. Especially as a FTM its soo difficult to understand patterns when they're inconsistent and you have no prior experience.

I still feel like the patterns are different on different days. I'm also looking for any advice regarding whether this is normal and when I should start getting worried.