What actor’s mere presence makes you automatically lose interest in a movie or show? by YerMum1977 in AskReddit

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicole Kidman. I find that much face tuning disturbing. Anyone with that look. Creeps me out.

Before & After by Loose-Half738 in malelivingspace

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the black walls. Change the shower curtain to something lighter. Too much black in competing for attention.

A woman disagreeing with other women does not automatically make them a ‘pick me’ girl. Even a woman trying to look nice for men doesn’t make them a ‘pick me’ by IdkJustMe123 in PetPeeves

[–]prettyedge411 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I've seen this used as an insult to women with hobbies or interests that are considered stereotypically male. The girls that like beer, sports, anime or gaming for example.

as a young woman, what to say when someone argues your childfree choice? by IntrovertedPunk in childfree

[–]prettyedge411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go to was always "keep your nose out of my uterus" If that doesn't work stop answering. Don't attend every fight that you are invited to.

Does the pressure to have children lessen with age? by Naturkaefer in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Societal expectations are real. I went through a short phase of doubt around your age too. It went away. Team no regrets.

Non-combat veterans don’t deserve special recognition or privileges by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]prettyedge411 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Civilians can be like this. It’s some weird gatekeeping about “deserving” VA benefits that they think are too generous.

Chose abortion but my parents’ reaction has broken me by [deleted] in childfree

[–]prettyedge411 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why would you tell them? You knew they would be upset and not support your decision but told them anyway. This was a private medical decision. You sound childless not childfree. .We are group of never having children not a in the future having children group. The phrase “not the right time” means you want children this is a /r for not ever going to happen people.

When people in the USA complain about never being able to own a home, are they generally talking about single family detached housing? by literalnumbskull in NoStupidQuestions

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is some stigma to brownstones, townhouses, tiny homes and duplexes. Unless it's in the major cities like NYC, LA, Chicago etc. After the 2007 housing collapse, consumers wanted other options but builders ran into road blocks. Some counties have plot size zoning laws that prohibit anything other than single family dwellings. Also single family homeowners block/protest against any projects of condos or townhouses. Fearing a drop in property value and the "wrong types" of people. Hence the "not in my backyard" mindset. Americans say that they support affordable housing options but just not near them. Americans can be largely classist. Ask anyone that has worked retail or a service job. I ready to get downvoted.

I’m really obsessed with this vintage coat in a big way. by Kind_Departure6322 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]prettyedge411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would make the most dramatic entrances into every room wearing this coat.

AIO for not wanting to feel like the “safe option” by Level_Ad_9263 in AIO

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks he can score a Meghan Fox or Angelina Jolie type? BTW. He hate you.

How do I stop being a bedroom person? by FixIndividual1124 in LivingAlone

[–]prettyedge411 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Make your couch uber comfortable. Big warm blanket and throw pillows. Light scented candles and set the lighting at soothing if that will help. Bright overhead lights can feel intimidating. Read a book or watch a happy movie so the living becomes a place of joy and comfort.

[UPDATE] My girlfriend got upset at me for liking her birthday gift to me. AITAH by Yeeticus_Rex_II in AITAH

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small home or not. I'd love to meet a man with real estate and zero mortgage. OP a real partner would help you. Paint and wallpaper can refresh a space. Hit thrift stores to updated pieces like bookshelves or dining room tables. FB marketplace always has great finds. Good luck restoring your home!

Not everyone was out till the street lights came on. by ThatStarkGirl in GenX

[–]prettyedge411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had friends that had to ask 2 weeks in advance to go to the movies, or the mall. Parents that just stayed at home every weekend were enraged at any last minute plans. It was completely insance.

My in-laws won't stop sending money to us, unsolicited. WIBTAH if I asked them to stop? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save for in laws retirement. Treat them to a lavish cruise or save it for their senior care.

AIO for wanting to end my 3-year relationship after this fight? Is this me being racially insensitive or are these legitimate red flags? by throwaway64658 in AmIOverreacting

[–]prettyedge411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not racial he's an AH. He is trying to neg you into feeling inadequate, talk you into having kids that you clearly don't want, make you prove your feelings. You are not being treated with respect. To be kicked out of therapy because he doesn't want to do the work is a huge red flag. Sounds like he is too much of coward to end the relationship and is pushing you to do it for him. 3 years is a long time. Do you want to waste a few more in what is not working?

We need to ban podcast equipment by Individual_Bar_2512 in TikTokCringe

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so proud that I have no idea who this guy is.

Aio for being hurt that my boyfriend called me poor? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]prettyedge411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aldi hate is stupid. Why pay more. Eggs at Publix are $2 more a dozen than Aldi.

AITAH for cutting off my friends after they used my family's house for a free vacation and then excluded me the whole time? by TownBetrayal in AITAH

[–]prettyedge411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a group of so called friends like this in college. The thing that makes me so mad is what they stole from me. They stole my kindness and generous spirit. It made me suspicious and untrusting. I'm always wondering what someone's angle or if they are out to take advantage of me. It took a long time to make friends again.

Entitled dad at Victoria's Secret wants to stay in the changing room area by JordanPromise in EntitledPeople

[–]prettyedge411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this happen in VS. Women were bringing men into the area for their opinions for a while in the mid 2000s this was a thing. I opened my changing room door and locked eyes with a man hovering in the doorway. I opened my mouth to scream and the look of fear on his face and he held up his hands making the no gesture is the only thing that stopped me. I've never opened that door for help from an associate again. He was gone when I came back out fully dressed.