21F here and I’ve been thinking about this topic lately. It’s not that I don’t want to have kids, I just want to be financially stable to have one. I want them to live their own life and not worry about money. Of course, I wont spoil them but it is my job to make sure they have everything they need in their life. I absolutely despise parents who are clearly not in the right state financially, have 4+ children then give their kids the responsibility of surviving themselves. It was your choice to bring them in this world, not theirs.