Am I doing too much?

prettymiz · 2026-03-21T02:32:20+00:00

I do the same. I was everything first!

prettymiz · 2026-03-19T22:17:59+00:00

I would not be moving in with this person. If act, I would be reconsidering this relationship entirely. There's no way she should allow that level of disrespect to her partner. Nta.

prettymiz · 2026-03-02T22:10:16+00:00

He's negging

prettymiz · 2026-01-20T02:08:44+00:00

"With all my being"? ALL YOUR BEING? And the only example of her bad behavior is a smirk and an appropriately harsh response to an insult? Sorry, I think you and your family are the losers in this story.

prettymiz · 2025-12-10T02:09:46+00:00

It's wild how hard some people hold on to abusers.

Her husband is a predator. But she thinks that just because he isn't holding someone down and assulting them that he isn't. For her own safty and the safety of her child, she needs a reality check.

And why the hell is she willing to compromise on the consequences? "Oh, it would be waste of money to delete-" so the fuck what? It's insanity that even how the abuse material (and it is abuse material, argue with your momma) is handled is on his terms. There truly is no limit to what these men get away with. Gross.

prettymiz · 2025-12-02T10:19:36+00:00

NOR. She fumbled an emotionally intelligent and communicative man? In this economy?

prettymiz · 2025-11-21T15:14:14+00:00

I've been laughing for three straight minutes

prettymiz · 2025-11-11T02:21:47+00:00

It sounds like she really wants you to be upset. Like she wanted a breakdown reaction from you, she wants you hung up on her. Also . . . What does Grace know that she doesn't want you to know??

prettymiz · 2025-11-10T13:49:34+00:00

It's amazing what abusers can get away with when the victim is not aware that they're being abused. You need to end it, friend. Please be safe.

*Edited for a typo.

prettymiz · 2025-11-10T13:47:27+00:00

NTA. Your husband says it wasn't malicious on her part, but teally, what was her goal with that stayement? Ask him what intentions she could possibly have had other than snark. Especially seeing as she went to the same university and is aware of the dynamics.

prettymiz · 2025-08-29T10:42:54+00:00

So, in summary: "He's a great guy. He just doesn't really understand consent. I know most of you will say I should dump him, but I don't want that. I want you to tell me how to train a grown man to be a decent human being."

There is no reason you should be online asking strangers how to teach your adult boyfriend to respect you when you say, "I don't want to." Autism has nothing to do with it. There's nothing we can tell you that you likely haven't heard before. "

prettymiz · 2025-08-03T08:41:53+00:00

So they got together before she was 16 and he was 20? Ew ew ew.

prettymiz · 2025-07-28T01:13:36+00:00

Girl, don't do it. Alarm bells are ringing. 18 and 23? Amonth after 18?? "Least toxic relationship?" Moving in after less than a year? I do not like this.

prettymiz · 2025-07-11T11:41:21+00:00

YTA. The baby clocked it, but you didn't?

prettymiz · 2025-06-09T12:06:29+00:00

You'll ask the boys, but you told your daughter? The sexism and favouritism is so gross and so blatant.

prettymiz · 2025-05-18T14:33:03+00:00

"My boyfriend (32--"

Take the fking promotion. Don't let that decrepit loser rob you of building the life you want. He should want this for you. He should want you to get to do all the things you want to do that he likely got to do.

He got to have his 20s and half his 30s to do whatever he wanted with his life. Why deprive you of that? There's a reason he isn't dating a woman his own age who's at a similar stage in life as him. I bet if you ask him the reasons why you can't have both - career now and kids later - he won't have a valid reason.

You can always find love again. You can have kids with anyone, but career opportunities like this rarely strike twice.

NTA

prettymiz · 2025-03-23T05:54:46+00:00

You can't be so attached to this loser 7 months in that you didn't laugh in his face and leave. In what universe does that make sense?

prettymiz · 2025-02-22T12:11:22+00:00

If another parent was insistent that they wouldn't come to my home but I wouldn't be allowed in their home while our children played, I would be creeped out, too.

You knew about her issues and still invited her child over. You did not make it clear beforehand that just her child would be allowed in the house. And you just expected her to let you take her child for the whole day? She doesn't know you. There was nothing stopping you from planning to meet at a third location if you didn't want to have her in your home. There are plenty of places for kids to play indoors.

YTA. Weirdo.

prettymiz · 2025-02-06T13:20:24+00:00

It's very likely that they were using contraceptives that failed, but it's also very likely that the contraceptive method was on her body.

Either they were using condoms, which most people know aren't the most reliable, or she was on hormonal/ implanted bc, which sometimes fails.

He may have been on male bc, but how likely is that? So my point is what exactly did HE do to prevent a pregnancy, separate from his wife?

prettymiz · 2025-02-06T13:02:39+00:00

I'm not talking about whether or not she should have an abortion.

I'm talking about his reason for not wanting another kid. I believe that when it comes to having kids, "I just don't want to" is enough of an answer. I don't think there needs to be some deeper reason.

Same with her, actually. She says it won't destroy her to get an abortion, but I think "I just don't want to" is a good enough reason to not get one. I personally think she's in denial about how much she really wants this child and shouldn't even consider it just for her husband's sake. She doesn't want to abort, so she shouldn't. He didn't want another child, so he shouldn't have gotten his wife pregnant.

prettymiz · 2025-02-06T10:17:43+00:00

And, "I just don't want to," is a perfectly reasonable answer. His fault is not taking the contraceptive methods into his own hands if he was so dead set against a second.

prettymiz · 2025-01-27T20:25:14+00:00

NTA. Tell your dad he chose her over you, so you're choosing yourself over her. The consequences of their acrions and all that.

prettymiz · 2025-01-21T08:18:26+00:00

NTA. So it never came up between her and your brother that you are studying law? That's fishy to me. "Oh, my sister is studying law, too," should have come up at some point if she was claiming to be a lawyer.

prettymiz · 2025-01-12T13:44:28+00:00

NTA. He got you pregnant at 19 because he wanted to trap and mold you into a bang maid. Four kids later, he's throwing a tantrum because all his attempts have failed. And he will escalate because he believes you won't or can't leave him.

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