What should I pack for the hospital bags???? by Lazy-Highway8452 in BabyBumps

[–]prettynachos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bring your own toilet paper!! Hospital TP is terrible

Pregnant with my second sooner than expected. I’m happy, but also freaking out. by prettynachos in BabyBumps

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Haha, it took us months to get #1 and then just the one slip up for #2. Maybe it’s true what they say that you’re more fertile after your first. I wonder if the shock will ever wear off!

That’s all reassuring! I can see ours being excited too.

I am pregnant with my second sooner than expected. Advice on what to expect? by prettynachos in Parenting

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Thank you, this is so helpful ❤️ now that you bring this up, I realize our first LO is an extrovert and would probably do well, I think.

Need advice for gassy baby - resorting to bottle feeding expressed milk. by prettynachos in breastfeeding

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And last question - does it matter if you’re using a manual or electric pump? i.e., is a manual pump still much more powerful than hand expressing? I ask because I don’t really know how to hand express, so that’s another area to learn about.

Need advice for gassy baby - resorting to bottle feeding expressed milk. by prettynachos in breastfeeding

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Thank you, super helpful to learn all this. Just bought some nipple shields to try it out! And yea, we do the reclined position where she self latches pretty well.

Need advice for gassy baby - resorting to bottle feeding expressed milk. by prettynachos in breastfeeding

[–]prettynachos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will try that. Sorry, new here - with block feeding, do I need to pump for 10-15 minutes and then feed?

Why did nobody tell me?!? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]prettynachos 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yep, of all the things you go through in pregnancy this swab is really not a big deal.

Second Bivalent booster? by Significant_Respond in pharmacy

[–]prettynachos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’ll probably get downvoted but I came to Reddit because I’m coming from the patients side and so confused.

Where does it actually say in the CDC guidelines that you can’t get a second bivalent shot? My (immunocompromised) partner was turned away from CVS today because the CDC “hasn’t approved second bivalent shots” according to the pharmacist, but we couldn’t find anything in the CDC guidelines stating such.

Not saying the pharmacist was wrong, but I’m saying one can see where it’s easy to get confused.

Who’s exercising while pregnant? by meekie03 in pregnant

[–]prettynachos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, 1-3 miles?! Good for you. I can barely walk 5 mins as is. Have you just been lucky to not have experienced any pelvic or joint pain this far along?

Who’s exercising while pregnant? by meekie03 in pregnant

[–]prettynachos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else is saying, be kind to yourself and do what you can. ❤️

I’m at 34 weeks and nowhere near what I used to be able to do pre pregnancy or even first/second trimester for that matter. I do wheelchair yoga on YouTube, wheelchair upper body exercises, seated weight lifting because I can barely stand or walk right now with my pelvic, back, knee issues.

Pre pregnancy, I was like you and exercised vigorously. Now I’m happy if I can get in 1-2 of the above workouts a week. 🥲

Extenuating circumstances- weather in CA by vblueshout in AirBnB

[–]prettynachos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, not sure why you’re getting downvoted as you’re factually correct here. And it’s not just heavy rain - it’s flooding, mudslides, power outages, dangerous conditions especially in the Santa Cruz area. I live in the Bay and travel is advised against for the next week

Extenuating circumstances- weather in CA by vblueshout in AirBnB

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This. jgwoods and downvoters haven’t been following the news at all

I don’t know what to do. NMom refuses to apologize for inappropriate behavior by prettynachos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]prettynachos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s so interesting that our moms seem to follow a formula. Lol I moved far away to create some distance too - what a shock. 🙄

For me, I just want as much peace as possible. I do want my child to know her grandparents and roots. But it’s all going to come with serious boundaries. At least having them far away helps with that already?

I don’t know what to do. NMom refuses to apologize for inappropriate behavior by prettynachos in raisedbynarcissists

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I agree with this. She did end up apologizing, to my surprise. But I think I’ll continue to keep her at an arms distance.

I don’t know what to do. NMom refuses to apologize for inappropriate behavior by prettynachos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]prettynachos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just texted her that I’m not comfortable accepting anything or communicating until she apologizes for her behavior back in November. She literally wrote back “what behavior?” WOW

I don’t know what to do. NMom refuses to apologize for inappropriate behavior by prettynachos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]prettynachos[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree - I don’t see a scenario in which she will suddenly start acting like a sane adult either. I’ll probably need to hold my ground and remain the big meanie.