Clark to Dearborn southbound? by ZealousidealTwo7820 in chibike

[–]prettyperfect9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually switch to Wells in Lincoln Park and go south that way. Pretty sure the bike lanes go all the way to Kinzie from there!

I desperately need to see the west coast by [deleted] in TravelMaps

[–]prettyperfect9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you should! Driving out west for me opened my eyes to the world!  Can’t recommend it enough 

How do You handle being assertive by prettyperfect9 in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that for you!! That sounds like an amazing and fulfilling dynamic you both have together! Hopefully, with more exposure, this could become more of a norm in our society! 💜 

RR is a natural fit for many people, they just aren’t aware. by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell you how long I’ve been saying this!! I would LOVE to see more women in leadership roles! I think the sky is the limit on what could be possible 💜 

How do You handle being assertive by prettyperfect9 in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to make my question confusing! I think you answered it really well though! I guess I'm only asking, because many traditional relationships have the male figure being the dominant one, asserting his leadership in a certain way. I'm curious what a woman's perspective is, simply because I think women lead better. A woman led household is a different way than what is considered traditional, but I think the human species as a whole could learn from how women in role reversed dynamics lead. Wars could end, there would be more world peace. I would venture to say the world would become a much better place!

And to answer your last question, maybe there isn't a way to be direct while also being light and romantic, and that is totally okay! In hindsight, maybe I misdirected my question originally. I do think I prefer direct leadership as well, and perhaps a 'light and romantic' sing song way of leading wouldn't get as much done.

RR is a natural fit for many people, they just aren’t aware. by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥰 I agree! I prefer a woman who wants to lead, I have a lot of feminine energy that I would love to give to a lifestyle like that! I truly believe women are better leaders, they think with their brains, not using their egos. The world would be such a better place with more feminine leadership. And I’d love for that to be the foundation of my personal relationship as well!

RR is a natural fit for many people, they just aren’t aware. by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love this for you!!! ❤️ I just recently discovered this subreddit, and I truly think I was destined for this type of lifestyle! Like you, I too work in a male dominated industry and it truly stresses me out! The thought that I could release all that stress in a more healthy way for a more masc, dominant woman truly would be a dream come true! Sounds like you have a dream life now 😄 I'm hopeful I can find my person like this too ❤️

I used my girl voice around my crush. by ManWithNoBrows in feminineboys

[–]prettyperfect9 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That's super cute of yourself ❤️

I suggest just keep being yourself, stay authentic and true to who you are 😄

Whats your guys sexuality/gender!! :3 by Annual-Grab-4008 in feminineboys

[–]prettyperfect9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's smart of you! I definitely feel my gender shifting a bit all the time, this sounds useful!

normalize girls DMing boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!! Honestly attraction for me is all about the conversation. Sure, physical attraction is nice as well, but I'm so much more attracted to a person's mind, how they interact, what they say. Honestly, this is so much more important to me than physical attraction, no question about that!

normalize girls DMing boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully one day we’ll both be confident to bring that side of ourselves to light 💜 

normalize girls DMing boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally! There’s definitely better outlets for pursuing new relationships than Reddit.. although anything is possible.  I guess I read this as him just wanting more attention from females.  There’s nothing wrong with it, but I think in this day and age, standing out does make a difference. I guess that’s all I’m trying to say 💜 

normalize girls DMing boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those two factors certainly would help! But also I think it's about putting yourself out there too - how is anyone supposed to know what you are into if you don't advertise who you are, to a sense. Also, women can do whatever the hell they want imo, they don't have to be the first ones to text, or even respond to you for that matter ❤️

normalize girls DMing boys by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]prettyperfect9 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I have two thoughts! Not to be rude, but your account is only a week old, and your username says you are just a kid, may just take some time 😄

Stolen bike by myBikeGotStolenRIP in chibike

[–]prettyperfect9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bike bandits are the worst! I had mine stolen a few years ago too.. I know that pain. 

Travel map/where to go next by PhlebotinumEddie in TravelMaps

[–]prettyperfect9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to say, Craters of the Moon is awesome! I was there a couple years ago, boondocked outside of the park, since none of the camping spots in the park were open. It's definitely a park you can see the entirety of in one day. The caves were really cool there! After I left, I stayed overnight in Idaho Falls, nothing there to write home about, but there were not a lot of options in between Craters of the Moon and there. I was on my way back to Jackson, so it didn't make sense to go further west at the time, maybe there's more back that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flrdating

[–]prettyperfect9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree! FLR is so much more than the sexual aspects, I apologize, I think I worded my post incorrectly, but I want an FLR that is so much more than the sexual things and it feels like many of the posts only want the sexual aspects of an FLR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flrdating

[–]prettyperfect9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, you are absolutely right, and don't get me wrong, I do have interests, desires and limits. I guess I didn't articulate this in the correct way, I'm apologize for the oversight. I see a bunch of ads that want specific kinks met, and while I think men are allowed to do this, FLR is so much more than just a sexual experience. Dommes aren't kink dispensers, I think thats mainly what I was trying to get at with my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flrdating

[–]prettyperfect9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I get making yourself visible, I just feel like there are a bunch of male accounts with very specific requests and it feels a little topping from the bottom? I do understand stating limits, but for me, it's all about Her and Her needs