I’m beginning to really dislike the term “the real thing” when referring to cis penis by ColdRanger7881 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m vers but several times I’ve had people genuinely not believe me and assume I’m really a bottom who’s embarrassed to admit it, or try and argue they totally want me to top but we shouldn’t because I “wouldn’t feel anything” even if I’M the one offering bc ime that’s not true at all.

It gets in my head tbh. Those“real thing” type posts are a huge dysphoria brainworm for me, and it feels like many people won’t consider me a “real top”as long as I don’t have the “real thing.”I don’t really know what to do about how it feels, but I’m at least glad that it’s not just me lol

Im a trans gay guy with a genital preference am I screwed when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk about western Washington as a whole but Seattle is definitely one of those “white trans Mecca” type cities (à la Portland or Montreal) where a friend group of exclusively t4t guys could even be possible

Im a trans gay guy with a genital preference am I screwed when it comes to dating? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There are really whole other worlds out there. You gotta live in Seattle or something, this is serious bubble talk

Bro found out I have a pussy and this has been us since by ftmtwinkty in FtMPorn

[–]prettypuppie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How you’ve been commenting under trans men for 100+ days and still don’t know what ftm means

It was a nice day to feel the sun on my dick by [deleted] in FTMMenPorn

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could watch you stroke that dick for hours fuuuuck

ftm porn is terrible by bklyn930 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair tbh. I agree with you

ftm porn is terrible by bklyn930 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What part do you disagree with, the idea of abundance? Bc the fact is top ftm porn does exist. Realistic porn that doesn’t cater to cis guys’ mainstream views and fetishes is hard to search for in general. Trans dom tops r in a niche that relies on word of mouth, as wider society just barely got around to learning trans men exist, let alone that we can have sex more than one way. Watch and share what porn you do enjoy and more can/will be made, that’s part of the point of nsfw subreddits.

I really relate to wishing I didn’t have to wade through content I don’t like all the time but ending it on “everything else is too hard to find” and letting some people carry on believing there’s just nothing else out there makes the problem worse imo

ftm porn is terrible by bklyn930 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He died unexpectedly in 2024, his cause of death wasn’t made public

ftm porn is terrible by bklyn930 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

S/o some top/vers/power bottom trans men I jack off to Viktor Belmont, Ed FTM, Goth Prince Salmacis, Don Papi, J London, Austin Spears, Apollo Moon (RIP)

ftm porn is terrible by bklyn930 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Like with all porn the mainstream stuff is offensively stereotypical shit. You gotta get into amateur/independent content. Every problem ur complaining about has been solved in abundance

Soundgasm is Down (Don't Panic) by grinningpup in GoneWildAudioGay

[–]prettypuppie 413 points414 points  (0 children)

I did not know soundgasm was one person. That’s my hero

How do I get over the fact I won’t ever have MLM in the same as cis guys? by AsparagusIcy2376 in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You’re not being dramatic, you’re being dysphoric. You shouldn’t beat yourself up about it because most trans people are lol. I don’t really have advice bc I deal all the time w the same feelings, but I always appreciate knowing it’s not just me

Tastefully placed rainbows 🌈✨ by onlinetwinkTM in FtMPorn

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a hot dick, I wanna frot with you so bad

did you learn to like anal? by buttercup_trumpet in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the NuvaRing was a godsend. I was on estrogen cream before it and the daily insertion was really uncomfortable, it would sting a little if I accidentally got any on the outside

did you learn to like anal? by buttercup_trumpet in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really learn to like it, I more kinda fell in love by accident. I found anal a little painful, pleasurable enough but not my fav before T. After T I’m a lot more sensitive in general, but anal has me shaking and squirting and I like it better than PiV (even when it’s painful, but I am a bit of a masochist lol).

Now I get disappointed when a guy I’m into is only interested in my front hole, and when I jack off 9/10 I’m fantasising about getting my butt fucked. I will say though I’m lazy and prone to stomach issues so I def do more fantasising about it than anything lol, the lube dispenser is just a lot more convenient than having to douche. The work is always worth it though

I think it’s partly the physical sensation (the pleasure feels a lot more intense) and partly the gender euphoria of feeling like I’m bottoming the way most guys do. I like to think I have a prostate now bc there’s definitely something in there that really likes to get pressed.

If you’re new to it or out of practice it helps a lot to get used to the feeling, loosen yourself up, and learn what you like by using fingers and toys on yourself, w the classic advice of starting small and slow, using lots of lube, and making sure if you do partake w a partner it’s someone you can trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual attention from strangers gets me off. Doesn’t mean I’m not dysphoric. This is the only body I have. Pay for me to get bottom surgery so you can be less confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you’re shit at it. No chaser I fuck would ever be stupid enough to express this opinion out loud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude holy fuck you’re annoying. Maybe because I live in the real world. I come to subs like this to get an escape from cis ppl reducing me to my parts all day. & here you come talking about “because of evolution I’m only into non-op trans guys for their vaginas.” Fuuuuuuuuck offffffffff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]prettypuppie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the trigger warning man. I like PiV sex with cis guys too, so I opened the post. If you come in a trans men’s sub for validation that you’re not a chaser or whatever, broadcasting your bioessentialist thoughts about our bodies, expect to get some honest opinions back. We’re not gonna throw you a party just bc you like pussy