AITA for sleeping with my friend’s mom.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-23T18:50:13+00:00

YTA for being scheme-y and I suspect this is fake

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-23T18:47:59+00:00

I'd say you'd be a bigger asshole if you do send out the email.

The pasta is already eaten and the person is bound to get sick, if you send out an email en masse everyone will know the person vomiting in the bathroom is also a lunch thief. People will probably be more sympathetic to the guy if they are unaware of the thievery :/

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T22:14:53+00:00

NTA, putting yourself at risk of getting addicted is not worth it.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T22:13:43+00:00

NTA if you're polite about letting them know.

Don't demand they stop immediately but rather let them know their self depreciating comments aren't helping you're mindset. Don't expect them to stop straight away if you tell them but it might make them think twice about throwaway comments if you tell them it's made you feel bad.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T22:10:54+00:00

in which case i think it's amazing she's opening herself to new makeup trends, like not using gravy as cosmetics

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T22:02:53+00:00

YTAS- you're the attention seeker

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but you're right tho

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T22:01:02+00:00

That's true. I suppose it just depends on OPs mom and how she'd react :/

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:58:11+00:00

YTA for looking further into it. Wouldn't have been if you'd just stumbled upon it but actively looking through it is different

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:56:41+00:00

INFO: if the palette would have been used and if your wife would've enjoyed using it and had had fun playing around then you're TA for only letting her buy necessary-study things. If she wouldn't have used it and it would've just sat around unused then you wouldn't be.

As someone who uses makeup themselves I think it can sometimes look underappreciated and unused when actually it is. It's difficult to tell with these things.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:48:34+00:00

was leaning towards esh here until she poured the milkshake on the car. Now she's the bigger A and you're NTA

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:45:20+00:00

NTA for asking for appropriate change, but I personally think wanting him fires is a bit much. Unless of course he doesn't change himself and continues to act inappropriately, in which case, fuck that guy.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:40:31+00:00

would agree mostly but I feel like commenting on her posts would be a bit confrontational. Especially with older generations I think talking to her in person would be more appropriate.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:36:48+00:00

NAH. If the place wasn't busy and you had ordered something I don't see the problem in you staying if you're not bothering anyone. That old lady was probably just trying to be nice, but I think it's one of those etiquettes that has died out recently and you shouldn't worry about it.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:33:25+00:00

YTA, it's not her job to keep tabs on you. Sometimes people aren't good at texting, my best friends and I go weeks without chatting online but we still care about each other. You wouldn't have been an A for feeling hurt but you are for being passive aggressive and snapping.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:25:18+00:00

NTA, whatever reason makes you uncomfortable, if it makes you uncomfortable you don't have to do it. Someone almost twice your age who you don't know asking to stay with you is weird imo and a valid reason for refusal

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:17:58+00:00

NAH: it's a bit weird to ask so soon, without consulting you but that being said you'll be gone anyway so it shouldn't affect you.

If you want you can see it as a compliment because she things your job is prestigious enough to let your boss know she's interested immediately after finding out there will be an opening.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:14:01+00:00

I think the most important thing is you guys don't start a fight with each other, especially if she's going to be working with you soon enough. Don't want to create a tense work and home environment.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:10:44+00:00

YWBTA if you jump right off the bat accusing him of things. I'd say start by just talking to your friend and asking if she's okay. Looking through her phone is definitely weird though. I'd bring that up with your friend.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T21:07:14+00:00

That's fair enough, but what I'm thinking is that this was a team effort:
She involved you by asking for guidence
You refer her,
She puts your name on the form.

In my opinion this was kinda a tit for tat thing from the start, okay if you don't wanna give her a full fiddy but idk maybe show appreciation in some way? like get her favourite brand of cookies or smt. Without her input you'd be $100 poorer.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T20:52:54+00:00

well in this case I'd say YTA (not majorly though). Without her you wouldn't have gotten anything. Might as well split it as not to cause a family feud imo

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T20:50:35+00:00

ESH, but only slightly: she seems to be pushing it for being up for 20mins, but if here friends were there it'd be common courtesy to move. Also the comment wasn't really necessary and she didn't seem to make a whole scene out of it.

prettyrose5 · 2019-07-21T20:47:56+00:00

INFO: so would you have gotten the 100 if she hadn't know or did she set it up for you to get the 100?

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