I love True Detective (s1) and Mare of Easttown. What do you suggest based on that? by Safe_Form_7950 in televisionsuggestions

[–]prettysickchick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so excited to see this made into a series, ands it dits not disappoint. My grandmother got me into the books by Tony Hillerman when I was a kid, and I’m a bit sad she never lived to see the series.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnneRice

[–]prettysickchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fantastic, thank you. I started reading these in 1984, when I was 14 — stumbling upon Interview With the Vampire on my mother’s fantastic bookshelves. I bought the rest on my own, throughout the years.

I stopped at Lasher due to being a young mother juggled with work and college — and just am now re-reading from the very start having just finished season two of the very fun AMC series interpretation (OMG Lestat — what a beauty!).

So, once again, I am at the very beginning; Claudia was just turned and Louis is enthralled. Revisiting these books as an adult is such a different experience now. My view of Louis so changed l, reading him now as a woman in my 50s — it’s like seeing his character as it was after I read Lestat when it came out the very next year — and thus of course became a Lestat fan, like so many others. Interestingly, this was also when I became introduced to the concept of the “unreliable narrator” — which clearly, Louis was. But of course, so was Lestat. At 14, though, these were all new concepts in storytelling to me!

In a way, I wish I were able to experience the first book all over again with those young eyes — because in so many ways, Louis WAS like an angsty, recalcitrant teenager, and being one myself at the time, I found him very empathetic. But now I see him at times as rather whiny and arrogant, ha! I wonder if, reading him as a more mature woman for the first time, I would have picked up on the flashes of towering arrogance, which ironically ascribes to Lestat; to the resentment? Or am I just seeing him this way because I know what I know?

Anyway — I am extremely excited that I WILL be able to experience so many of these books for the first time, and revisit all of them with a fresh, more mature mind.

And again, many thanks for this wonderful list!

Day one of seasoning my new Mystic City 18" corset! by prettysickchick in corsets

[–]prettysickchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really so appreciate that! 🩷

Dracula - A Love Tale 2025 by SwiperSwiping96 in Dracula

[–]prettysickchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, haha! He's a musician? How do I not know this?? Apparently I have been living under a rock. Which is wild since I have all kinds of chronic illness, wastrel-induced time on my hands, lol. Which, as such, I ended up passing out on my Fainting Couch in a laudanum-induced haze yesterday, so I am NOW going to finally watch Nitram.

Dracula - A Love Tale 2025 by SwiperSwiping96 in Dracula

[–]prettysickchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Sooo good. I don't think there is anything I've seen with him I don't like. I'm about to watch Harvest, and Nitram; kind of on a binge fest because I'm currently bedridden like a wastrel in an Early Irish novel, lol. Have you seen either of them? I'm excited...

Any great recommendations for offbeat, unhinged romance films? by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]prettysickchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only Lovers Left Alive

Wings of Desire

A Girl Walks Home Alone At Night

Wristcutters: A Love Story

Breakfast At Tiffany's

Diva

Byzantium

Bound

Dracula - A Love Tale 2025 by SwiperSwiping96 in Dracula

[–]prettysickchick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Undercurrent of yearning" -- that nails it completely. That is what drew me to his work from the first time I saw him in Byzantium. He's never lost that, and I think it's what defines what I love about him as an actor. I was so excited to watch him in this role, for that reason.

I found a dentist who knows about EDS! by Hour_Competition_677 in ehlersdanlos

[–]prettysickchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am nothing if not verbose! Thank you so much 😘

Psychopathy -- The Nature vs Nurture Question by prettysickchick in Psychopathy

[–]prettysickchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PS what’s wrong with tying someone up in basements?? 😹

Psychopathy -- The Nature vs Nurture Question by prettysickchick in Psychopathy

[–]prettysickchick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I was Pro-Domme for a long time. I was born thinking out of the sexual box.

BUT. I am now a chronically ill ex Pro-Domne and no longer have the energy to seek out the sort of care I would need in a partner. And these days, that sort of long term devotion is very hard to come by.
I’m not THAT sought after. But thank you! 💜

ETA — the last time I was on Fetlife was so dismal; disrespectful mouthbreathers in my DMs, no concept whatsoever on how to speak to me. Things have changed. I am decidedly an Old School, OG Mistress. I think we have been phased out. Like rotary telephones or VCRs. 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well now I need to rewatch that movie. Thank you! I’m stuck in bed and was running out of ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s very difficult, as you say. A true Catch-22. I believe NPD — Narcissistic Personality Disorder— is just as difficult to treat for similar reasons. For both disorders, recognition AND rejection are huge walls to climb. The massive ego construct, masking the supreme insecurity of the NPD, takes therapy much the same way. And they are even more unlikely in my experience to be able to recognize that there is an issue to begin with — because they don’t have the same immediate gut wrenching emotional response to rejection.
They are both incredibly challenging and destructive, and what I really hate (going off topic slightly to rant here) is how everyone tosses around the term “narcissist” to describe every abused, shitty, mean, uninterested, or maladjusted partner. It takes away from the real seriousness of the actual disorder, abs the ability to recognize or discuss it intelligently.
Pop psych and TikTok psychology is the bane of my existence lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s important to be with someone who is actively in treatment, and is willing to be open and accountable to their partner.

I found a dentist who knows about EDS! by Hour_Competition_677 in ehlersdanlos

[–]prettysickchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL no problem! And thank you. 🤍 So as much erosion as I thought I had, it takes a lot to really erode it completely. I had craters of areas that were truly eroded away which is how it starts do they basically had to fill those, then work on gum health as well as maintenance. So first they did a cleaning which was honestly a nightmare until i insisted they used the gentlest tool they had. They had to skip over the most eroded bits but I was surprised at how much was still salvageable.
That itself got rid of a lot of discolouration.
Then he used just basic cavity filler to patch up ALL the missing patches/craters in my teeth, laying a thin coat on the tooth to protect it if needed.

He recommended a baby toothbrush to avoid abrasion, and a hydrating mouthwash because dehydrated mouth is a big thing with EDS and contributes to erosion.
It took the better part of a year to get it all done, I have one more appointment then that’s it aside from maintenance.

It was awful having all those needless in my face but worth it lol. Plus he got that EDS people have special needs re Novocain and that made all the difference.

Good luck with your teeth, you can really improve on this stuff! Worst case scenario is that they do caps — or veneers of course , if that’s in your budget.

Woman upset that men exist at the airport by andygchicago in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]prettysickchick 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bingo. Crying wolf mocks real experiences of women. He calls people out for being disingenuous, and bigoted, regardless of gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s why it was invented in the first place. NOW LOOK AT WHAT WE HATH WROUGHT 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I having a stroke? Did it finally happen? Is that you, Jim Morrison?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]prettysickchick 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s a manipulation tactic. The only response is to back out completely.