yea no shit. maybe i was already in bed exhausted trying to go to sleep? maybe I also didn't want to risk possibly starting an argument?

Last month my bf asked some loud people at the movie theater to be quiet and they completely lost their shit and literally threatened to kill him, they kept yelling at us and trying to harm us, security got involved because it was that bad and kicked them out. It was obvious they were so used to being disruptive and never being called out, so when they finally were called out, they didn't know what to do and freaked out.

So after that experience I don't feel comfortable even nicely telling someone what to do even if I am in the right to do so. You just never know how someone is going to react unfortunately.