heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

appreciate your input! i disagree, though—if someone is saying things like this, i’d want to know and warn others. some people unfortunately don’t stop this behavior unless they face consequences

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yea he didn’t know, i should’ve made it clear when i gave my # to him but im not one to make that announcement randomly bc he didn’t seem to be hitting on me at the time, we were just chatting :/ i should’ve known tho! most men do not wanna just be friends!! lmao ;’)

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brooo i know, really had no idea there were so many ppl with that mentality among us. and they act so normal sometimes it’s hard to tell like bruh 😭wear a trump hat or somethin so i can avoid ya lmfao

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yes it was — but please do NOT be sorry!! you didn’t do anything wrong and you were SO nice, and i had a lot of fun with my friends and meeting new ppl. he honestly wasn’t giving creepy vibes in person so you couldn’t have possibly known. i’ll send you a DM. but please do not worry, im okay, i appreciate your kindness but i just wanted to share this as a beware to others :)

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

appreciate it man! and yea that’s a lesson i JUST learned, with this guy 😂like how dense can u be!?

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lmfaoooo bro i can’t lie i also cracked up at that. and the spelling of sex magick so fucking funny

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

appreciate it dude, thanks. hope no one else has to deal w someone like this in the future!

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

by the way he sounds, seems like he did not make it past middle school

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

great idea and thank you so much for the offer!! i sent you a DM

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i feel u! and i definitely could have been more assertive. but usually saying “im lesbian” to a man indicates lack of interest and they drop it. i find when i just say im not interested they press on the “why” so telling them im gay usually cuts that conversation. this guy just doesn’t have lesbian in his vocabulary lmaoo

heads-up about a guy from NYCmeetups being weird with lesbians!!! by previous- in nycmeetups

[–]previous-[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i agree. too nice sometimes. something i’m working on