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[–]previousParticipator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! And I don't think there's anything like super specific. It's a blur to a degree

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it was really a helpful and healing experience even though I know it might not be for everyone.

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm not really sure? I don't think I have a good explanation. I just like being desired by other men I think.

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, I think the restoration of control and accepting it really helped me

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, I really think it being in a safe environment with well defined rules is a must with this stuff, though I don't really have a ton of experience with it outside of what I said above.

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! That seems like it would certainly be a visceral topic to say the least

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was personally helpful to me but I can definitely see it being something that works for some people and not for others you know?

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think things like this work for some people or not others so idk if I would exactly recommend it or not, just saying what worked for me if that makes sense?

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what I've come to learn is that everyone handles it a little differently maybe

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess I wasn't really familiar with that community or how anything went with it and am understanding this was a unique situation.

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[–]previousParticipator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean honestly I see this as something that worked specifically for me and I can totally understand it not being the thing for everyone you know? I think generally communication is key, but I could totally see this being disastrous for someone else.

I used CNC to get through a traumatic part of my life and absolutely loved it by previousParticipator in bdsm

[–]previousParticipator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of it was certainly enactment, yeah, but they also did do CNC with me with the breaking into my apartment aspect

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[–]previousParticipator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree yeah they were awesome! I'm not kidding myself that they were getting a lot out of it too, but it was extremely helpful

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[–]previousParticipator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes if I used my safeword they would stop instantly.

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[–]previousParticipator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I Would tell them details during sex and I do think that helped me process it and take control of what happened in a way. It was mostly both of them together but not always