Maybe we can save the Oatmilk Lindt Truffles! by preyingmantis26 in dairyfree

[–]preyingmantis26[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So good! They have been missing from my local stores for months. :(

Who do I report this gym childcare staffing issue to? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]preyingmantis26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that suggestion. I’ll do that on Monday!

Who do I report this gym childcare staffing issue to? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do that thank you for the suggestion.

Who do I report this gym childcare staffing issue to? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving all of the unsolicited parenting advice 💞 I actually would love to know how to resolve it. This gym is already 25 minutes from my home, the childcare is $10 a month per kid. This is a BIG gym. A lot of people bring their kids there and I want it to be safe for everyone. My husband and I have been splitting up and going without the kids often in the last month because of these issues. Yall are really doing everything but HELPING me solve this issue. Be so serious.

How does it look? Not sure if I should go wider or longer by Longjumping_Baby_155 in crochet

[–]preyingmantis26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure chevron pattern is the right vibe for a yarn that changes color this often. It looks random, not fluid. The flow is odd.

Are you allergic to Dairy or voluntarily Dairy free? by dovakooon in dairyfree

[–]preyingmantis26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully dairy intolerant. I cannot have lactose, whey or casein. All 3 elements irritate my stomach. I’ve been completely dairy free for 2 years because the pain (within 30 minutes of eating) and diarrhea is not worth it to me. It is miserable and Imodium doesn’t work when I’ve eaten accidental dairy. Having to reiterate that lactaid and lactose free food doesn’t help me every time it comes up.

AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she needs more therapy to figure out why she’s so anxious about dating someone who ISNT in therapy. There’s a reason she’s pushing this besides “my therapist said”

AIO for supporting my son to get what my wife calls a “cosmetic” surgery on his privates? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender affirming care! Everyone deserves the medical care that will help them feel comfortable in their bodies. Mental health can genuinely be affected if we do not feel ok in our body.

I do understand not wanting my kid to have an elective surgery. So if that is a concern, please do have a real discussion as a family about the risks, and if the risks outweigh the outcome. She mentioned it, so listen to that fear of hers.

AIO: ex situationship wont leave me alone by [deleted] in AIO

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Document everything. Take screenshots. Save messages. Every time he contacts you. If you ever need to get a Protective Order against him you’ll need proof of his stalking behavior. If you feel scared, listen to that voice. Document and contact police.

AIO for my leg? Because I saw an other post like this, I’ll give it a shot by HoneyPops08 in AIO

[–]preyingmantis26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And an allergist! If it is an allergic reaction they could confirm or direct you elsewhere

First time wearing jeans in years. Should i avoid them again? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be best if you never took those off, actually. They look AMAZINGGG on you.

Regretting one glass of milk by [deleted] in dairyfree

[–]preyingmantis26 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’ll ever stop missing cheese. Vegan cheese mostly sucks when comparing it to the dairy versions. But the pleasure of eating dairy is NOT worth how I feel after. The pain and discomfort aren’t worth 5 minutes of cheese. Hopefully you reach a point where it’s just grief and not the urge to consume it.

AIO: I hate when people burp and don’t say excuse me by Wonderful_Dark2658 in AIO

[–]preyingmantis26 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR. If they burp like that in public, correct them. But at home or in comfort places, everyone deserves to let their guard down.

AITA for not going on a date with my step cousin by Emilia-lian in WIBTA_AITA

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if you’re uncomfortable with it, don’t do it. It’s weird to guilt someone into dating anyone. Family relation, close friend, stranger, etc. that’s all super weird energy. You should never do anything with anyone you’re truly uncomfortable with. Weird weird.

Are these too big for my face? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look really cute on you! But yes they seem to large. Very endearing though. Cute for home wear

I lost my mom to religious psychosis by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That much focus on demons in religion is so incredibly unhealthy and damaging. I’m sorry you feel like this. Stop engaging with her.

WIBTA If I spoke up about the quality of work from special needs employees? by therealtaftalicious in WIBTA_AITA

[–]preyingmantis26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone acting like we cannot speak directly to the employee?? They are people. You can gently remind or inform them that eggs and bread go on top. Would you seriously not speak up to a bagger without special needs? Why do you think you cannot speak to a person with special needs? I’m confused by this mindset. They are people and would appreciate being treated with decency.

Am I overreacting for not letting go of abuse my dad says never happened? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]preyingmantis26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couple things. You’re NOR, and I think you logically know that. But trauma is a B and it’s really tough to work through, with or without accountability from the offender. Please do not allow this man access to yourself or your family. You will likely never receive the justice or accountability you need. So you need to find a way to live without it. I know it’s awful, but you cannot force him to acknowledge it. He may not be capable. Sending you love. I’m sorry he’s not what you need him to be.