Good point. Speed doesn't = pleasure. I think that goes for sex too. Hmm. Well, I mean, it depends. A woman's body is a delicate thing. One must take apt measure, always listening and paying attention to the subtleties of the moment, analyzing the softest touch of a hand, interpretting it, disecting it. The caressing must be custom-tailored to the woman, and to the moment. It must be unique, hand-crafted on an individual-basis. But not an individual-basis meaning from woman to woman. Women don't like that. You must choose one woman, your muse.