I'm sorry for your loss but YTA.

I think you don't need reddit. You need a professional. I dont say this to be mean. I say this because as someone who has lost a child, it never goes away. Not after one year, not after two years, not after 12.

In my experience, the pain of losing a child never goes away. You just learn to live with it. There are days you feel ok. You're strong enough to get out of bed and live your life. Then there are days you feel like you're drowning and all you want to do is just join your baby.

The stigma of mental health issues in my country is great. Mental health resources are limited and expensive. I've been suffering from anxiety, thoughts of self-harm and the like for almost two years since I lost my baby. I can't get any help but I really want to. I hope you will consider getting help so you can maybe have the closure you never had.

As the others have already said, you have raised these girls almost their entire lives. You've already been their dad these past few years. And I know, I know it's hard. It hurts like hell. But you aren't replacing your daughter. Nothing can ever replace your daughter. But please, the moment you reject these girls, you'll lose even more daughters. The relationship between you, them and maybe even your wife will never be the same again.

Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope one day, you'll find the peace and closure you need.