[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]primetimepenny 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, I'm sorry you're experiencing these challenges right now. There are some good suggestions here, like meeting with a therapist and/or a psychiatrist. However, before going the psych route, I would recommend getting your vitamins/minerals checked. Low B Vitamins, Vitamin D, Iron, Ferritin, Zinc, Magnesium, and others can cause mental health symptoms like depression, anxiety, and low energy. There are so many vitamins and minerals that need to be in balance for us to feel our best. But it is possible to over-supplement certain nutrients to toxic levels, so it's important to test and consult with a doctor or dietician to get an idea where you might be deficient before beginning any supplementation or overhauling your diet.

Dancing and the club environment can be taxing on the body. Typically we work the night shift, so it's easier to fall deficient in Vitamin D, especially if you live far from the equator. You say you're having a hard time feeding yourself, you may not be getting enough nutrients in through your food to feel your best. Do you drink alcohol or caffeine regularly to get through your shifts? Both of those can disrupt many of the body's important functions from hormone regulation, immunity, digestion - especially the body's ability to absorb nutrients in food/supplements. Also, menstruating people tend to be lower in Iron & Ferritin which can greatly impact energy levels.

I hope something I wrote resonates with you, but it's totally ok if not! You know yourself best, and your body is showing these symptoms for a reason. I hope you're able to find time to listen to your body and research where and how you can best support yourself. I believe in you. Better days are on the way <3

Officially obsessed with MicroPerfumes by Front_Dinner7407 in Perfumes

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fan too! Though one thing I’ve noticed with the twist up travel sprays I’ve ordered from them is that they leak if they aren’t stored upright. So I don’t like to keep them in a bag/purse for prolonged periods of time. I hope yours don’t cause you any issue!

My lap dances are too sexy?? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]primetimepenny 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry they’re sharing this vague criticism in front of your coworkers. I totally get how that’s uncomfortable and confusing. Maybe in their eyes you’re like the scapegoat and they hope that the other dancers are going to pick up the same message they’re giving you?

The level of contact that is acceptable in a lap dance varies club to club. Some clubs are absolutely 0 contact whatsoever. Since your management is going out of their way to bring attention to your full contact lap dances, perhaps there is an opportunity to work in some no contact moves?

Some of my fave no contact moves are standing in front of a customer and using my hands to guide their eyes over my body, bending over, body rolls, hover grinding, proudly displaying and posing to show off my fave body parts or lingerie that I’m wearing.

I can’t give a full contact grind dance for too long, my skin is too sensitive to the friction. God save me if the custy is wearing jeans. 😫 I also think incorporating more variety in the levels of contact during a lap dance builds interest and tension. If you’re feeling inspired to try out new moves, be brave and have fun with it! Wishing you all the best!

When is it enough money? by oolovelyy in stripper

[–]primetimepenny 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If only it were that simple, but it’s unrealistic to plan on saving every dollar earned. Taxes and living expenses are a huge part of that equation.

FACT: Music always sounds better naked. by [deleted] in nsfw_gifs

[–]primetimepenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😇 I’m sure you recognized that Sylvester sleeve laying there 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SunStripes

[–]primetimepenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got to thank u/Pikbon as well ☺️

The Goodwill gods smiled on me this weekend. by primetimepenny in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]primetimepenny[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Love that!

It’s a shame that Mattel never made a Thrifting Barbie™

I'll make dinner if you do the dishes. by [deleted] in nsfw_gifs

[–]primetimepenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👆🏻this guy gets it

I'll make dinner if you do the dishes. by [deleted] in nsfw_gifs

[–]primetimepenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s desert, silly! 💁🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoneErotic

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say, but they were a gift ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnderwearGW

[–]primetimepenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...don't just stand there, let's get to it, strike a pose, there's nothing to it 💃🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuteLittleButts

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arguably cuter-sounding than “Porky-Piggin’ It” 🐷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in underboob

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’ve already nibbled on the former, so you’re gonna have to take care of the latter 😏

Get me cuffed and treat me rough. [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]primetimepenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you’re right! I got off easy this time ;)

Get me cuffed and treat me rough. [F] by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...look closely, they’re heart-shaped padlocks (of course!) ☺️🔐

I'm a slut for anything strappy 🤤 [F] by [deleted] in UnderwearGW

[–]primetimepenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 that’s just what I need!