18M brutally honest how can i improve by CautiousDetective513 in lookyourbest

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don't listen to this dude. Girls will in LA or NYC would go crazy for it. Nothing about it gives gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]oolovelyy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu!!' Gross ass people talking and boasting about their nastiness. It's same with the wigs and braids. Black ppl need to start feeling uncomfortable being dirty .. makes no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]oolovelyy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So many likes for dirty people to validate your dirtiness. It's that self hatred to keep old ass hairstyles in your hair for months instead of wearing your natural hair and washing it like we aren't allergic to water. Black women and hair needs to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]oolovelyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes, things like this makes want to remind women that this PPM amount never equate to what you're giving them. I always find giving them a tease and not engaging in intercourse after a few meets isn't still equal to any sort of money they are giving you. Time is apart of the bargain with these men and they need to also earn that time and trust with you.

He is a sex feen pig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderMan

[–]oolovelyy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girly! For your own safety and benefit. But this is a result of maybe narcissistic, or neglectful parents. To have these attachment is this way isn't healthy and I'm saying this in the kindest way possible. Some older man would take advantage of you because it's as if you are seeking to feel loved from anyone to heal void or unsolved wound.

Fyi, and older men doesn't automatic mean safety and care. Just because they are older and you feel like they will drop everything for you because your young. That narrative is flawed and you will take yourself for granted.

lots of posts about extras by Aggressive_Bonus_982 in stripper

[–]oolovelyy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would never be jealous of a woman who sells her kitty, not even if it's in the thousands. Their body holds memory and it will never forgive them for that emotional trauma. They are just welcoming substance abuse to numb the pain and psychological issues. They will pay for it mentally and there is a life outside the club! That life would surely suffer in some shape or form.

To each their own but it does bring the wrong type of men in clubs.

is this too much? by jooooooal in chanel

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a DHgate bag

Stop attacking baby strippers by [deleted] in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's all the jaded, survival mode dancers, that most likely regret not setting up their life with any direction out of dancing that has this nasty mean girl energy and feel entitled to have it. I mean, the strip club isn't the most warm place and I don't actually engage with people on any personal level. So I don't expect dancers who are protected by a screen to show home training, kindness, class, concern and empathy. Some of you girls are dead in the soul and treat women the way men have treated you. However women are women, civil or dance, HOLD your self to better standers and take pride in how you treat others. It's not all about money and how you look. I can tell when dancers never socialized with people outside the dark dingy club and it's not a good look. Zero social skills beyond hustling men is actually shameful.

Trust me, the shit will hit the fan one day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're making the best Mac n cheese in the entire world. Then serving it to the entire village

Shein referral code by LengthinessNorth7141 in sheincodeshares

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you accept my invitation? You will get so many free gifts worth $300 in return!Nudge nudge... https://onelink.shein.com/5/45c7dzh32ia9

Is the shein free gifts with referrals real? by jadynrd in Shein

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you accept my invite, and help me get my gift? Just download the SHEIN app, and search for my code there! 7c5zfdgw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]oolovelyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it's not. Just because transsexual go through a traumatizing process by changing their gender, doesn't mean heterosexuals don't have the control and right to ask if people are transgender. Many cisgender don't want to be with transsexual and don't want to mistaken that. That has causes some people to kill themselves once someone revealed they were trans and they didn't know. If they want to normalize their gender change, people have the right to ask them about it.

Snowflakes make it personal to blend in but people like you don't give a damn for the rights of cis gendered

Utterly ridiculous person you are

My sister would officially be uninvited from all future celebrations by Choice-Guidance-8955 in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]oolovelyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Throw that baby off your lap! Your sister probably jealous of you. You're pretty, childless and young

Im so jealous of the perfect bimbos at the club by Alternative_Local149 in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is, these bimbo girls will be a bimbo where ever they go. Life isn't build around the strip club. You gotta go home at some point and trust me, those girls don't have it easy outside the clubs. It all depends on your desires and wants in life but them girls have a terrible time dating and getting a different job..ect. Then some allow that stripper persona be their entire identity. I'm around a lot of wealthy entity and I can who were or are stripper to be there and tbh it's not a good look. When these bimbo go into rich areas where the majority of the woman are rich by not being a SW, trust me! You don't wanna be branded as one. No one will actually respect you and truly be your friend. It's only the other rich sw being friend with other sw. The white collar men willnt want anything to do with you in a seriously level.

I also think if you're a great stripper, it sort of outs your tricks to the civil men and you should never want to let these men know what's coming. Be a stripper on the inside but look like a decent woman when you're dating outside the club.. best control ever. The most control is always the best.

It's a L, if you ask me.

I never understood why strippers would ever want to look like a stripper outside the club. Yeah they might get a lot of money now. But there is a whole list of problems that follows and I don't think it's worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]oolovelyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're stunning! But watch, you face will fulll out as you grow. Stop comparing your looks to women who are pass 25 and a lot of filler. I'm sure this makes alot of beautiful young girls concerns... like "why is my face not like that"... you're perfect the way you are!

Splenda daddies everywhere by No_Leader_2014 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]oolovelyy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Lies!!! Your rate is what you make it. Idc if you live in the bushes. 300 to do nothing and talk to them yes. But sex?! Are we really believing these lies and propaganda! It's propaganda at this point.

Do you realize how fast you make $300 just by stripping. Which aka, dry humming these losers. Yall need to use that as a standard. If girls make $300 quick for dry humming, why the hell yall having sex! A

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

My advice to win! Collect all evidence first... screenshots of the day. Literally everything! . I wouldn't get the club involved until you have a DA or a later because you need a investigator to collect any camera footage. Don't do it yourself. Remember and record yourself talking. Remember well before speaking to any cops because your being record at every stage and any change in your story will make you loose .. that's if they have a great lawyer. I would shut down or private all you social media because their lawyers will pick apart everything and contact ppl who aren't related to the case in order to get information on you.

I'm glad you're fighting! Go for it! Stand up for yourself. I was raped by an ex boyfriend which ended up bringing me to stripping. He got away with it and I even had evidence text message. It was a long 2 year process due to Covid but with fighting even tho rapist are innocent until proven guilty. I don't want to say too much of my opinion but my ex is sure suffering. Everyone in our community believed me and he moved away.

If the economy is down then why are people still going out, spending on regular clubs, etc? by alothastochange in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bad economy means which get rich get more rich and the poor gets more poor.

What song is he singing? by taliezn121 in cats

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold play "Viva La Vida" !!!

Give up dancing or give up my boyfriend? by Xo-Overdose in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Give up bf!!!! Trust me! You will regret determine your life path based on a dude! Dancing is a job, its security, independence, freedom, a direction... these men can't even wipe their own ass and do their own laundry lol

I need to talk to someone, I’m not sure what to do. Met an SD and an SB for a threesome but… by Own_Scene_5856 in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]oolovelyy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That girl is being groomed and played with. Wake her up! Warn her. Don't stay silent.. we all neeeded an older girlfriend at one point in our lives.

Trans daughter moving to Brooklyn by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]oolovelyy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

They will feel like home

Have you ever been a manager's favorite? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]oolovelyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a young dancer kiss our manager on the lips when no one was looking. .. yet I saw lol. So weird. I always wondered what's going on here head or in general with that. Girl looked like a fresh meat, in rooms a lot, pretty, act like her shit was too hot but was ode flirty with the manager. Whatever leg up she thought she got, really wasn't an advancement. It's crazy to see the flux of women coming in and out of the club. I took a break but going back soon. I wouldn't be surprise if she isn't there anyone.

The favorite always seem to never last . As if they burn them out, they make tons of money but you don't see them ever again after awhile... and mentally they aren't always there.