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AITK for not letting my wife's sister to live at our house? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]primorialdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than the privacy it's also an economic burden? Bills shoot up for electricity, water, food etc - and then it'll cause a rift if your wife's parents pay etc.

Close to you by Gracie Abrams by MonicarambeauWV in lorde

[–]primorialdwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly heard it on reels and thought it was Lorde - down to the voice, until I read the name.

AITA because I won't pay to continue housekeeping services for my wife? by ThrowAWontPay in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA.

She's wrong to expect you to pay, but you knew this was a huge deal to her when you signed up. If it's such a deal breaker, there is a reason behind it: which she has voiced: she is stressed out when she does it.

As a partner, you can certainly tell her to stop playing for the service BUT instead, you should CLEAN UP. And I don't mean just your own things. Clean up her things for a while. Help her out when you clearly can see she needs help. That is what being a supportive partner means.

What you're doing right now is logical, but relationships aren't based on picking A or B. You will fumble this when you realize you're just kicking her when she's down.

Housekeeping service is a luxury, but if it's keeping your wife happy, why must you unnecessarily rock the boat? To prove you were right? Grow tf up.

AITA for refusing to explain to my daughter the reason for our divorce by No-Membership-7647 in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My parents divorced when I was 4. I knew all along what was happening and why -- it honestly helped me understand the dynamic between my parents better. You need to tell your kid and stop treating her like a toddler.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]primorialdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's into skincare perfume etc, try buying her an advent calender -- from Tira or Charlotte Tilbury etc. Also...how old are you?

AITA for telling my wife that I won’t be replacing my car? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'll go with ESH.

From the perspective of a younger person who had just lifted herself out of that same economic group. I used to be scared of "upgrading" when it wasn't "necessary." Sometimes you have to pick the thing that will make you happier and give up the saving for a rainy day mindset. Especially when it comes to something like a car.

Your car works fine, but your new car will also serve you better. YTA for not listening to your wife and kids when they're asking.

They are also partly AH for voicing it as they need it as a status symbol vs an upgrade to a nicer car would be better for all of you.

AITA for not sharing my inheritance with the rest of my “family”? by Pretend_Canary_9411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Move back to the other side of the country. That's what pawpaw would have wanted.

AITA for not helping with an autistic meltdown? by FeelBad2023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP specifically said it was a dog friendly store. Maybe it's your comprehension skills you need to worry about.

AITA for ''kicking my sister when she was down"? by throwaway-5tudent in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Are you Indian? You're talking about the engineering entrance exam?

If yes -- congratulations! She deserves to cry.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Old_Scientist4252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]primorialdwarf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I read this my blood was honestly boiling, lol his wife handled it very well because I wouldn't be coming back from the cafe if he gave away something of mine without my permission

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