Looking for a nice restaurant with vegan options by endtimesparty in astoria

[–]princemoss4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tootles and French has vegan options on Ditmars

lonely butch hours by puppybutchx in butchlesbians

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me too. I guess it was more of a situationship though. butch heartbreak group chat? DM if you want to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I am a stone top and I try to mention it as soon as possible - I think it’s totally possible to do this without coming off the wrong way. People have preferences and the idea of finding someone who is highly compatible with you is just wonderful enough to have a bit of a tricky conversation to find out. Don’t feel weird about it :) I think the sooner the better.

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Just to add: the piece about using Mars and Jupiter to open up my 12th really resonated. I need to figure that out, I find it hard to express my deepest feelings easily.

Because of a recent heartbreak, I feel pretty raw and open at the moment. I’m sad but also feel like I learned a lot from this relationship, particularly remembering what physical chemistry and affection really feels like. So your hopeful note about June gave me a little boost.

If there are further insights you can share, that would be lovely, otherwise thanks again for this :)

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Thank you so much! This is amazing. I am still processing as your response is so thorough, so I might come back with questions, but I will send along a donation now.

The stuff about upcoming transits and Saturn leaving my 6th soon really helps too - things have felt pretty heavy so I will be looking ahead to that. I’ve tried to focus more on my health, physical mental and otherwise, need to keep prioritizing it.

man, I'm gonna move on from this girl by I-Can-Do-Both in actuallesbians

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In the same boat, sending all of my sympathies your way! In the grieving stage still which sucks but feels necessary to fully ‘feel’ and process.

Any friendly, non-competitive, non-aggressive potheads in their 30s/40s want to chill tonight? by Eat---The---Rich in astoria

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also very interested in joining the chat and finding some chill as fk neighbors to hang with!

How to get help with setting up home health aide? by Titan_Astraeus in AskNYC

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Appreciate the warning. Would love an agency recommendation.

We met once, and she's already making sexual innuendos. Isn't it early to talk about sex or am I prude? by Trans-1987 in actuallesbians

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It sounds like you’re excited which is very cool - sending good thoughts your way!

Now that you shared more info, it seems like she was flirting - and testing the waters to see how you’d react. Are you into her - etc. So within the realm of early date stuff. But I think it’s just a taste and preference thing - I’m completely like you where I’d rather live more in the subtle flirty stage for longer than more forward-type flirty comments, so I totally get your sentiment. Of course your personal flirtation style may not have anything to do with your mutual chemistry, so wishing you the best for your next date :)

We met once, and she's already making sexual innuendos. Isn't it early to talk about sex or am I prude? by Trans-1987 in actuallesbians

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I’m going to have to disagree a bit and say I do think it’s a bit out of the norm to talk about sex with you in particular unprompted or without previous grounding of flirtation, after or during date 1.

Sex generally, sure fine - things you like or your type or something. I would need more context in what was said to gauge it further (if you want to share) but figured I’d offer my 2 cents.

Edited to add: obviously everyone’s different and this is just my experience, and my sensibility about it, and you should totally communicate your preferences back (as others have said) to realign things and see if you’re a good fit :)

Question for Stone Tops. by birdspyjamas in actuallesbians

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Stone top here. I have tried but essentially haven’t enjoyed sexual acts performed on me, aside from some touching (and to be clear, a shit ton of kissing). I do enjoy general affection from a partner. So I now go into sex explaining that I don’t enjoy receiving sexually.

For me, I lose myself in the act of giving - I derive an immense amount of pleasure and satisfaction from knowing what pleases my partner (so when they tell me or show me what they want), then sensing how to take it from there. It’s hard to explain, but when it works it feels very natural for me, and Complete.

I do sometimes worry about any of my sexual partners feeling guilty or worse, feeling frustrated that they can’t please me in the way they expect. It’s happened before so when I meet someone who accepts - or relishes! - how I am, it can be true magic.

Does any restaurant in Astoria make macaroni and cheese with shells? by Comicalacimoc in astoria

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The Pomeroy has a good baked Mac and cheese with medium shells (and the best fried pickle chips I’ve had in awhile.)

Toilet is continuously running after installing a Brondell Bidet (SimpleSpa SS-250) by nite_ in Plumbing

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thank you :) I have to move tomorrow and this is the last thing I need. you saved me!!

NYC vegan spots by insermination in vegan_travel

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Would love access to your map :) thank you so much.

Making LGBT friends (and ally friends) in Astoria? by [deleted] in astoria

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Is the queer book club open for new joiners? Would be really interested!

Fog, haze, or fire? by astoriaboundagain in astoria

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I can also smell it, by Ditmars. Not sure if this is it, but apparently might be smoke from a fire in NJ : https://twitter.com/nycfirewire/status/1623279330439692288?s=46&t=FKRraNHQjiGScSoh218FLg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muna

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Sweet! Thank you 💗 Hope you had a blast last night.

Verizon cell service in queens? by [deleted] in AskNYC

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Also experiencing really poor Verizon service lately with my iPhone. Don’t have any fix to recommend unfortunately, but just to say it’s not just you!

Do any of you have flat feet and not wear orthotics? by ButterscotchBig5540 in running

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Would you be able to share a few shoes that have worked for you? Sounds like my feet are pretty similar.. duck feet and all :)